Many problems for this little girl..........Pleeeeease help!

Honesty is usually the answer to anything - even if it means hurting someone close. Since you weren't honest with her, your only two options here are to:

a) Be happy for your friend that she has found someone who makes her feel as good as she does.

or

b) Move on. If her being with him bothers you so much, tell her and get her out of your life.

If you value her friendship at all, I advise the first choice. But if trouncing your pain exceeds the importance of your friendship, leave her with your (ex?) crush, bidding her happiness (as so you don't sound bitter).

This choice is ultimately your's to make, but make it with wisdom. Think it over for a week or so before you choose your path of action. The only other thing I can tell you is: good luck and I hope you make the right choice. If all else fails, consult your friends or even your mother for further advice, as my words are only such - advice.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

well wish i could help you i do but i am going thro the sma ething the first time it happend i was still with the guy and my best friend at the tiem slep with him. and now my now best friend want to date the guy i love. well i and i said sure go for it. so now what hey i like soem help to

I think eclipse gave you the best answer...

I'm with ^^^^^ Best friends, friends don't do that. When I read that this girl not only hooked up with a guy she knew you liked, but IMed you with repeated updates, I got pissed, and I don't even know her.

I think all girls, when they say, "No problem," it's a big problem. It's so true it's practically cliche.

I wouldn't do anymore than tell this girl to stop IMing you. or try to block her messages somehow. You can't really stop her from doing what she's going to do. Just defend yourself.

then again, how long have you known her? Cos depending on that, how close I considered her a friend, I'd be more torn about whether to drop her completely or not. but that's me. I don't like dropping people completely. no matter how much they hurt me.

nice advice ismail