If someone could help...

Ya i know, some peeps think posting here is a cry for attention, but this is serious, i'm totally lost on how to feel about her now...so please just help me out.

ok i REALLY REALLY care about this girl, i've loved her for a year and shes only beginning to realize how i feel about her now..ok well she had sex with a guy a year ago...i got over it and moved on...she gave a guy a handjob a few months ago...i got over it and moved on...ok well...now she really really cares about me, but she ended up doing some things with this guy last nite, i know she wasn't lying to me about how she felt about me, she said this guy was on top of her and he weighs like 70 lbs more then her so she couldnt stop it but it wasn't rape...i'm sooo confused...should i still love her?...

There's NOTHING to be confused about!

(*screaming* WHAT THE ______ING HELL!!!)

You can do SOOOOOO much better...a frigging ROACH could do better! END IT NOOOOW!!!!!!

*But on a calmer note...doing all of this, she doesn't deserve your love and care.

//Ari\\

if u can forgive her for all the things she does, then so be it, but personally, when she was with and did this stuff, i'm not so sure, but if you want to love her, then by all mean go ahead, you don't need anyone's opinion for love, just you and hers, think about it. ^_^

*~MaRiA~*

talk to her
tell her your concerns
if she doest comply, leave her
dont have your heart broken more

take care
memily

I think u should talk to her......If u love her then at least lisen to wut she has to say and talk to her bout how u feel. But if this continues! Leave her....u'll find sumone better someday! Theres no point to keep gettin ur heart broken. You deserve better. Hope evrythin works out. Take care! =D
~Luvz~
~Chica~

you do deserve much much better than her, move one, she sounds like a slut, and sluts just arnt worth it trust me

I don't think you can just shut love off...but I would say you're better off without her...she doesn't seem trustworthy...and you deserve better.

yeh i basically agree with all those above...(lol.ari):P...but yeh you sound like a great guy and those feelings deserve to go to someone who'll appreciate them. try adn get over it i reckon..although i know it's easier said than done...
take care and good luck
x x x x

you can do better....she obviously isnt mature enough to carry on with a relationship....if she cant be faithful now....she will never be....luv yas mwah

-kayla-

Lol. :P I just got a little pissed, if you can't tell...i can't stand it when someone's clearly being done wrong by somebody else but they're still hanging onto them like they're all they got...which is NEVER true. There's ALWAYS someone better than who you have now, even if you don't want to believe it. In times like this, you got to let go. End of story.

//Ari\\

just stop... STOOOOOOOOOOOOOP!!!!! *blows whistle*

*truck stops on highway*

*truck:did someone say stop?

me:er..............

anyway i kno u luv her but she has to stay truthful or it isnt a faithful relationship. i know it hurts,but what would be worse than fathering a baby that isnt even yours? come on!

Travis,

Listen up! Get a little self-esteem and stop being this individuals plaything. It hurts, life hurts sometimes, get over it. Easy to say hard to do....I know. You will not feel this way forever. Cut it off now and deal with the pain. it will diminish over time. Tell her you can not accept the things she does and you are done.
Then do not talk, write, phone,email, send smoke signals or any other form of communication I left out.
Pain is something we all go through. YOU have two choices
1) You can choose to allow the pain to rule you and you will allow it to destroy you
2) You can deal with it and come through the pain being stronger.