What is Sexuality?

Ok, during a conversation with some friends, the argument that if a boy kisses a boy that makes him gay or bi. I beleive that Sex determines sexuality. (hence the key word "Sex") So in short, i beleive that kissing a person of the same sex does not make you gay or bi, but if u have sex with that person, (repeatedly) than you are in fact gay or bi. What do you think!?

The same as you and I bet many others would agree, because many out there have more than once made out with the same sex and only to be adventerous.

I doubt they would view themself as an ambisexual or just straight out gay. (oxy-moron)

As I said at my house yesterday, I agree with you. I think it was Brittany who disagree.

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Touche'. Brittany is a moron but i need the rest of the world!!!

You're a newbie and they might not cut you any slack. Especially not Angie and especially not Ari. =P

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Whatever.

Oh get over it.

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what do u think about what is in the first post?

ok not talking about threesomes. like one on one hard core porno sex. more than once. what about that? (Burn!!!!)

*sniffs the air* Newbie? Where??

//Ari\\

I'm looking for answers because there are some people who insist its not.

I don't think if you have sex repeatively you are bi or gay. I believe if you believe yourself as bi or gay- you are. It's not in your experience, but your frame of mind.

I could have sex with my mom and I woulnt be lesbian. Just a little weird.

i think you are only lesbian or gay if you truly have no desire for the opposite sex.

Annelyse-
You'd be surprised. People in out society frown at gay or lesbian people. So, they do seem to care. A little silly no?

Well a little while ago I got very drunk, and kissed my friend (who is also female) and i hated it and didn't think it felt right, and don't think it makes me bi or gay! So yeah, I think sex and being turned on by it makes you bi/gay.

In my case, I dont think that if you kiss some1 of the same sex, that doesn't make u gay... If you think u r gay, then u r. I has these gay thoughts for over 6 months or so, and I considered myself straight back then. When I came out to myself, it makes more sense u r gay that way...

If you kiss them because you want to, there's something there. Maybe not gay or bisexual, but bicurious at least.

If it's a dare or you were drunk or something, you can still be as straight as anyone else who hasn't made out with a member of the same sex.

Just my opinion.
♥Niki

Thanks. i didnt think of that. HAHA!!! BRITTANY YOU SUCK!! I WIN! And obviously these total strangers agree with me!

Oh shush your mouth Anthony. She said she would -feel- gay if she made out with a girl, but she never said it would -make- her gay

If kissing people of the same sex makes you gay then the whole damn world is very, very gay.

But what are the odds of the happening?

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i dont know... 3 to one?

What do you people know?!?!?!
i am better than every1 of you!!!! I am the greatest!! EVERYONE WILL BOWDOWN TO YOUR NEW MASTER KIYOCHI IORI!!!!!!!
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Sorry about that, duckies! My Mr. Hyde came out but i have control over that lad! Strapping!! Speaking of strapps, who here likes Whipped cream, Fuzzy handcuffs and chains? MEEME!!!

Anthony.....just no.

*raised hand anyways*

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okay theres firsly experimenting to see what its like or whatever or just doing it at parties or whatever. than theres repeatidly wanting to be with someone of the same sex.

yeah lol thats my opinion

POETS REVOLT! (Army of poets come, try to overthrow Anthony)

I Agree That Sex Determines Sexuality, Kissing Does Not Determine Sexuality xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

Michael, you r just jealus that you cant have me. I know you want it but im not into transvestites. If i wanted to be with a man, i'd be gay. but since you got rid of your boobs, its not destined ot be. ok? go find yourself a nice lesbian to settle down with. i'm sure you will be happy.^_^

~Anthony

i see it at school all the time. (i go to a performing arts school so homosexuality isn't anything uncommon) Its not about gender. YOu love who you love. You cant help that.

~Anthony

Okay, this might sound a bit gay, but I'm alright with the fact that female kisses female, since it is a very common sight in America and I'm sure every where else in the world. But if I ever see a guy kissing a guy...well, that's just wrong in many different ways. I believe it's a universal way of thinking.

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I think they r free women. Most ppl arnt so freely showing their homosexuality.

Im not THAT jelous...(sigh)

LOL...jk!

Edited for wrong thread.

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Completely.

~anthony