Moving = P

  • ♥BrightEyes♥
    19 years ago

    Ok, I just moved to a new town. And let me tell you, it is hicksville. Not that my other town was Urban or anything. But still. I'm missing all of my incredible friends and am having trouble functioning. I cry almost every night and everytime i hear my friends names i feel super sad. I dont know what to do. When school starts, I'm scared i wont be open to making new friends because i dont want to replace my other ones...

    So, any suggestions?? How do I cope with this move, and how can I stop being mad at my parents for ruining my life????

    I NEED HELP

  • ♥BrightEyes♥
    19 years ago

    seriously guys....some feedback please????

  • TinyDancer46
    19 years ago, updated 6 months ago

    Ohh I'm sorry, I know what it's like to move to a new place. But don't be afraid of making new friends...If you do make new friends, it won't replace the other ones. You can just have more =) You'll make friends easily, I promise you. It will seem hard and scary at first but you will adjust. Just talk to your old friends alot, because if you don't, then you'll only miss them more. If you have a brother or sister, try going to malls/movies/town functions so you can slowly start to get to know people better. Or if you don't have a brother or sister, invite one of your old friends to come up there with you and go. Hopefully this makes sense, and hopefully it helps =)

  • ♥BrightEyes♥
    19 years ago

    Thanks tiny dancer..

    have you moved before?

  • TinyDancer46
    19 years ago, updated 6 months ago

    your welcome =)

    Yeah I've moved before, but only when I was little. But my best friend just moved about half a year ago, so I helped her realize that she wasn't going to lose me and that she would still have fun there. Now she loves it there and we still hang out just as much as we did before.

  • ♥BrightEyes♥
    19 years ago

    omg. thats soooooo relieving!! =)

    hopefully I wont cry as much now!

  • TinyDancer46
    19 years ago, updated 6 months ago

    Aww don't cry hun! You'll be fine, I promise =)

  • ♥BrightEyes♥
    19 years ago

    Any one else????

  • Kara !
    19 years ago

    I moved nearly nine years ago. I still talk to the person who was my best friend then, even after all this time. Just remember to make that effort to stay in contact.
    And you'll make new friends. It's difficult, but certainly not impossible.

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    this is my third time moving to a different state this YEAR. I lived in Georgia for 15 years, then decided over Christmas break that I had to move with my dad or else things would REALLY get bad with my mom and I left...that..and she told me to get out of her house.

    lol

    so I moved to Florida with my dad for 6 months here in Florida, started over completely. And it wasn't that bad. I made a few friends, not an overload like I had back at home. But they were GOOD friends, the type of quality that you always dream of. One had cancer (my absolute best friend ever) and she was the happiest, most adorable person you could ever meet. She really changed my life and unknowingly taught me many things...

    But my dad is in the military and he's being restationed all the way up in Virginia.

    So now we're heading up to Virginia.

    I've never even seen the state until I went with my dad. It's definitely hard to leave people that I came to love behind, but this is life...and maybe it won't be so bad where I go either. I may not make a million friends but I'm fine with that. I'll be okay with the ones I already have. Keep an open mind and keep trying!! You'll do great, I'm sure.

    Heck, I'm practically the most anti-social person I know, lol!! If I can make it, then I bet so can you.

    The place I'm moving to in Virginia is also a hick-town, lmao!! -sigh- should be fun!