What do girls like more.

Do girls like someone to be understanding or is there something else I'm missing. I don't really know so can someone help me out.

Understanding, caring, there for them, some one a girl can be comfortable with, so not crowding, hovering, over protective... I'd personally like to have some one who'd be willing to stick up for them selves and go against me some times, show they're an actual person.

I don't think you can just say "girls" because that is being a bit too general.
I would love someone who could understand me, not judge me... that's just me. Hey, I think that everyone wants someone understanding. Of course, a protective boy is a great thing, someone who worries about you, makes sure that you're okay... that's really touching, to know that someone knows you and loves you enough so that they want you to be safe. *swoons*

Basically, I think girls want to be loved.. I mean, I'm a girl and I want to be loved. I don't think that there are many people who can understand me, but just to be loved and cared for, that is enough.

//T.L.//

This is an interesting thread. Good question.

yeah what do girls like more..
Im interested in this topic..

I think it's nice when a guy can be understanding, but I also think it's almost impossible for them to understand everything a girl would.

Personally, I just like a guy who's fun to be around, easy to talk to, and isn't clingy (if that's even a real word). I like things to be relatively simple, so it helps if he isn't over-dramatic.

That's just me though, there's no way you can judge all girls by the opinion of one.

just be kind, notice her and don't hurt her

Ummm hmmm this is a really good question..I like a guy to be sweet,funny(deff one of the best traits i love a good laugh) and romantic...a little bit protective but not too much..because being a little protective makes a girl seem likes shes really wanted/need/cared about/loved...I like a guy who i can actually be myself around without having to show off cause he likes me for who i am..Singing is always a good trait for a guy i love it when a guy sings especially to me...I also love it when guys write me poetry...because that's the sweetest thing but again this fits in with being romantic...I love a guy that actually be's himself and doesn't try to show off/impress you..cause he know's that you like him for who he is...so ya i guess this is good enough...this is what suits me..
♥
Steph

"Sure, they'd like all the soppy poetry and taking your coat of for her in the cold"

I had a guy who was like that, which I thought was something I wanted, but I absolutly HATED it! It was sooo weird. He'd write me poems telling me he loved me in them and gushy romantic things like that... it was creepy. I guess I'm not one of those 'hopeless romantics'.

It's good to have someone understanding. But then again half the fun of being with someone is when you can still confuse the heck out of them, but they still love you anyways (in my opinion at least). So to a point it's good.

I rather have someone whose funloving, caring, funny and nice. Or at least 2 of the four. I also like it when guys are confident, but not the cocky confident. For me sarcasm is a Huge turn on, and a guy that can take a joke and isn't too sensitive.

Id like to say that I prefer the romantic sods but I dont. It makes me nauseous. If I want romance i'll read Tennyson. I tend to go for one of two types. The guy that annoys me (because then I at least pay a little bit of attention to him) and the guy that intrigues me (shows up out of the blue, stays a week, disappears, and shows up two months later only to do it again) then im never bored with them.

I like someone who will actually talk about real things rather than stopping me in the middle of a debate to say "your pretty" I dont like it when my grandparents act that way and I wont put up with it from a guy.

I hate it when guys say
"you remind me of my mother"
or
"Why do you want to hurt me?"
especially if they say it in the same sentence.

I always end up falling for guys that cheat on me/ steal from me/ one even wanted to strangle me

Answer the question?

In simple terms? Not enough words in the dictionary, I say! =)
Ok, Ok- I’ll make life easier for you. A girl wants exactly what Nuovo just said, someone who can “show off in the 'real world’”.

Genuineness and a great sense of humour, that’s what I’d like to see…

…who am I kidding? ;)

-Elysium.

Umm... my only advice, would be to be yourself because if you change and it's not something you want to be... then what's the point? But this is only me... do whatever you want. Major point of being lovable is being sweet to her. That's all I'm saying cuz I don't wanna mess anything or do anything wrong. Peace. =]

Rayne xx.

Girls like when their bfs be hoenst with them. They also like to have a bf who can make them feel better when they are feeling blue or depressed.

this was a bulletin off of myspace... i hope it helps. =]
I'm the guy who will text you every single morning and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams.

Im the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.

Im the guy who still thinks you're beautiful wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.

Im the guy who won't pressure you to do things you dont want to.

Im the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.

Im the guy who kisses you on the forehead.

*I'm the guy who'll randomly tickle you just to hear your laugh.

Im the guy who doesn't kiss and tell.

Im the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.

Im the guy who's excited all day because im looking forward to our date that night.

*Im the guy who is content to just be able to hold you in my arms and wants nothing more.

I'm the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.

I'm the guy who'll say i love you first not because I want something from you but because it's the way I feel.

Im the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.

Im the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.

Im the guy who gets butterflies when he hears your name.

I'm the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends he loves you because I truly do!

Im the guy who doesnt mess with other girls when i have you

Im the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.

I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.

I'M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.

I AM THIS GUY.... one of many.... who always ends up losing her to the jerks who'll treat her like crap and are "too good of a friend" to date

I Think The Above Post Said It Best

xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

Every girl is different, and what one girl may think to be attractive, another girl may find it repulsive. In the end I just say be yourself, because the only way a girl is going to truly love you, is by loving who YOU are. But it's also nice to step out and try to please her, such as tryign to understand what she's going through. Or simply just be there for her, and at least just listen to her when you don't understand.. Personally I'd love that in a guy.

Every girl is unique you can't pin them all down and give them all the same label!

The reason I said girls is I figured at least a few girls of a different type would answer. That way helping me to understand differences that most people don't know about. I guess we all just have to figure out what a girl likes, that way guys know if they can't accomplish that for a girl then they need to find someone they can make happy, or guys can just learn to adjust and just deal with it. I just needed some good opinions, and well frankly I got several great ones. well if anyone has more advice I'll be glad to hear it.

Girls are hard to understand. Thats why I will never attempt to even try to comprehend the complex mind of a girl. I am a simple person not meant for complex things like girls :) (even though I do like them!)

girls want someone who can listen to you
they want you to have a humor side and a sensitive side
and a serious side

They want everything. Girls want someone who is understanding and at the same time, someone fun with the best personality, good looking and slightly sensitive. Oh and I personally can't be with a guy who's unexperienced...or shy. I know, we can be a bit complex. A guy without all these qualities is almost useless, sadly. =/

Girls -and- boys...expect way too much.

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(")-(") Arrivederci!

Perhaps a little bit of romance? Being understanding is fine, but girls like to see a guy who has his own style and someone who isn't afraid to be himself. Also, confidence can also play a large part. If you're trying to impress a girl, be confident enough to start up a conversation with her. That'll show her that you've got the confidence to speak, and that you're interested in what she has to say.

Great thread.

girls like boys being protective..but not sooo protective!!..
Girls like boys being frendly/soft/caring/and open..
OPEN=who shares their problems with the girls..

Girls love boys when they are romantic!!!..
Girls love boys who are hardworking..
Girls loves boys who stands for them selfs and others they love!..
Girls loves boys who can understand them..or who are understanding!!..

dis much from me--hope it helped
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Every girl is different. Most girls like a guy who understands them. Someone they can turn to when they need help. Somewhat like a friend, but more.

Most girls like to have someone who is sensitive and understanding and caring, but they want somebody who is strong and will protect them at the same time. its kinda complicated actually, if you get too mushy then most girls will get annoyed, but if youre too 'strong' and dont show any emotion then theyre also gonna get annoyed...

sorry if that didnt help at all...

-Allanah

Considering I'm a girl, I know a thing or two, but don't call them girls!! If they're not your sister, call them women. Women hates it when you call them girls. Although they do like to be called that once in a while. Spcifically don't say, Woman, you better stop that or whatever to your gf, mom, close people. Like when you categorize gender, you can say woman as in you are a woman. Personally, I like someone who's there for me. Relaxed, laid back and not so worry about what to get me for Valentines' Day (although we do like to be showered with gifts and compliments) but make sure you mean it. You can get hurt if she can tell that you lied when she asked if you think she looks fat or not. I want my guys to be honest, caring, funny, and motivated to aceive something, smart, sweeps me off my feet every now and then, unpredictable, but remember it's depends on different girls. Same goes for guys too. The best advice anyone could have given you is to be yourself. You want the girl to notice and love you for who you are, not who she thinks you are just because you pretended to be that person. Don't try to act cool, no one is actaully "cool" we all have a dorky side. Plus, you might embarrass yourself. Remember, if she doesn't like you for who you are, she doesn't deserve you. I'm not done, but I'm so sleepy, anyways my MSN is chattingthailand191@hotmail.com email or add me if you want to listen to more.

P.S.
Good hair and cute eye somewhat essensial to an eye-catching notice too. ttyl lol