How do you know when enough is enough?

This is happening to a friend of myne.i need to know wat to do.

Well at school i sleep around a lot. I party a lot and i've gotten pregnet two times. i just don't know when to stop. it's almost too much but i still don't know when enough is enough. I mean the sex is great but getting pregnet is diffcult on my social life. And the alchol is just the hardest point in it all. To me all this is just like my very own drug. That i'm completely addicated to.

Wat do i do? wat do you think?

^It's funny, actually, I said the same thing to a girl (one of many who has slept with 7 boys) just the other day. But her following comment is too disturbing to write here. Oh gosh, it was shocking :|.

Ok all i said is wat do you think . cause i don't know wat to say to my best friend without affending her.

Stephania already posted about this....why post another one?

Ooooooohhhhhh ok, never mind.

But wouldn't your post answer this ones as well??

Well first of all, she needs help. Being obvious, I think yes. But still. That's, sorry, but stupid. Like Britt said, keep her legs closed, get some help, and stop effing around! Jeez. People think life is a party. Open your eyes, smell the damn roses. You'll realize that life isn't just a big club, but a big huge maze. And you're just running in coners and sitting at the dead ends sucking your thumb. Get up, and try again. But don't keep running in those dead ends.

^Agree.

I only care b/c she is my friends but thanks guys for the advice.

Yeah thanks to all of you for your awesome advice.

Its up to you what is life about to you. Is it about having fun, how dedicated are you to the one you love, how much are you willing to throw away. personally i hate alcohol because to me its fake about life. You drink and your not yourself. It really depends on your goals in life.

Send me a PM if you want me to keep up with this. Best of luck.

Thanks i'll tell her. but yeah i'm really thankful for all your help to my friend.

Maybe she's happy living her life like that, many people are, i'm not saying it's right im just in an argumentative mood...

Ok thanks!

Maury is her answer

Huh, want a medal?

If this is for your friend, why did you write it from your point of view? I'm confused.

Anyway, what kind of response would you like? I'm confused about that as well.

Let me say, as a respectable young woman ;), you are failing miserably at life. What is your purpose? You need to find one, and stop wasting the time you have left on this planet. Sex IS great, I agree...but masturbation is great as well. If masturbation isn't satisfying enough, then have sex, I can't stop you. I can advise you to use protection however, and if you don't take that advice, you have no business posting on this forum. Use protection, think about the choices you make, and think about where you want to go in life...as well as, where you are currently headed.

She's starving for attention. Alcohol, drugs, sex ... these things will not fill the void in her life. The attention will not cure her insecurities, it will make them worse. She needs to slow down. Perhaps someone should reccommend counseling!? She could use a non-intimate, less promiscuous way of receiving attention from people around her.

And one more thing --

BIRTH CONTROL!

Ok thanks to all of you for all of your advice.
An Update- she has started cousling, but i'm hoping she stays with it. right now she transferred to another school close by so that her and i can still talk but far enough so she can start over. Thanks again to all of you.