Curiosity Might Kill This Cat

Here's my question, people.

Is it better to date for experience... Or is it better to wait for the right guy?

Actually consider it, por favor.

I'm curious.

In my opinion, its better to wait for the right guy. I made the mistake of losing my virginity to someone that i didn't care very much about and now i wish that would have saved it for the guy i'm with now.

Nothing wrong with either choice. Just make sure that by dating some random Joe you don't accidentally miss up on the chance for your 'one'.

I agree with Alex, although personally I'd rather wait for the guy than date around.

Ehh really i think looking for mr right is what to do o.o or not look at all sometimes you find him easier when not looking... i dont know lol

You should wait for the right guy.

But you can also date without having sex. - no sex before marriage xD. lol

ME and my friend said we'd like to date peopel and not be stuck to just one person and b doing that we might find Mr. Right but hey I took a chance on this guy I hardly knew, had no butterflies for, but had and continues to make me laugh the most :)

How do you know you have found the right guy, if you never had experience with the wrong ones? That's kind of how I see it.

And..

Well I never would have dated my boyfriend if I was waiting around for the "right one". It was mostly just because we had a lot of fun talking and hanging out. However, after we started dating I saw a whole different side to him. We've been together for over a year now, and are very happy.

I can't guarantee that he's "the one" for me, but either way this has been an amazing year, and I would have hated to have missed out on it.

So I think you should just date whoever you want, otherwise you won't know the right one when you find him, and you'll miss out on some great exeriences.

Either one is okay . It really depends ont he person and what they`re open to .

How do you know he is Mr. Right, if you havent experienced all the Mr. Wrongs?

you need to date around, not in a whore sense, but just so you can figure out what you want out of your relationships in the future.

and if you arent putting yourself out there, you may be letting him slip away.

Personally, I agree with Jamie to a certain extent. I wouldn't just date anyone, I'd want a special relationship, but I wouldn't not date anyone, because like Jamie said, if you don't date the wrong ones, how will you know what's right?

.:Danielle:.

"My question is is there truely a difference if your not a virgin and you want to have sex with someone you love deeply? Your bound to lose it eventually so why act like its the most vital thing on earth. I think too many people blow it out of proportions but who knows. The world is too touchy feely these days."

^ Well, I don't know what or how it has changed, but sex used to be a special thing shared between two people, but nowadays a lot of people just don't even care and will let anyone into their bed. Sex used to be considered sacred, now it's hard to tell what is sacred these days. To me it is a big deal, because I believe it's something special that should not be shared with too many people, but that's just my opinion.

Sex is a personal issue. Just because you date around doesn't mean you have to sleep around. If you feel you want to, then do it. If you believe in waiting, then don't let anybody change your values.

^^
but why keep all them lovely bones to yourself? ;) :p Love should be expressed...if sexually..so be it (though note, I'm a guy...it would be a sin for me to pass up a chance to convince girls to have sex haha)

Yes, follow the stereotypical trends of sexism...Yes Joey, good boy.

I think it would be healthy to date for experience coz then you'd learn more of what you're looking for in the right guy.. and when he does come, you'd know it's him..

Agreed with Alex.

Ahh...Jane...always there to club me on the head with her sense of righteousness and her innate desire to master over me like the horses she rides. Well I won't be whipped. Hmmm...I wouldn't mind if you ride me though...hahaha...Just kidding and I was sorta doing the same with my earlier post. Sometimes we should just go with the flow...life has a curious way of working itself out at times.