It bothers me whenever he calls me his bestfriend

Okay.. that may sound weird.. but me and this guy have been off and on for two yrs, but been best friends the whole time no matter what, but weve always had a plan to be together in the end ( you see i lived far away up untill a month ago ) .. and hed always tell ppl that his best friend was moving up here.. and now that im here he has a girlfriend, and he always introduces me as his bestfriend.. as if to say .. thats all you are or will be..
what do i do??

He has a girlfriend . She's with him, not you . End of story .

I agree with mia.
They say time heals everything. (Even if waiting hasn't helped me at all but anywayz ...) Just be patient.

Take care and good luck with that

You have to understand he has a girlfriend and cant really call you his girlfriend aswel. Just be glad he classes you as a really good friend because there are some people out there who arent even close with the people they love. Like mia said just give it time, they may break up and he may realise he loves you.

Hope he does :)

No.. guys i know that hes not going to call me his girlfreind, i wouldnt expect him to if we arnt together.. it just bothers me that he makes it a point to call me his bestfriend everytime.. instead of like introducing me normally.. like he might be doing it to be cute and proud to be my friend.. but sometimes it seems like hes doing it to make that point

Hmm maybe :)
like i know he still has some feelings for me left..
i just dont know if he still loves me.. and it just really confuses me when he does it
like i dont know if your answer is right.. it might be, but it could also be like a stop trying becuase we really are over and youre only my best friend now kinda thing.. like him and his gf have been together for like2 months now

If you want my opinion on it, he's probably doing three things subconsciously. First, he's trying to remind HIMSELF that you're just a best-friend for now, so he can remain happily faithful to his girlfriend. Second, he's probably trying to reassure you as far as how important you are in his life (best-friend isn't something to laugh at, it can mean a lot to people). Thirdly, he might, maybe, be trying to let other people know that you two are friends to dispel any sort of rumor-mill creations. Maybe. I think the first two are more solid than the third.

I agree with the first two reasons Sean mentioned there ^
be positive..and patient. time sorts things out. if he wants to be with you he will in time, when he realises and breaks up with his current girlfriend.
for now, just be a great friend! =]
--Viola

Hmmm well sean has a really good point he might be doing those things but knwoing that wont help you any... truthfully you should just move on no sue in waiting for something that might never be... and do you really want to be back up??? thats what you would be no offence but you can still be his best friend but if you think about it... if he loses ehr youd basically be back up cause he knows you like him... well most likely knows.... so move on in the ebst case scenerio hell get jealous buuuut maybe not who knows... but moving on is seriously the best choice... and if its not you can change it later... you can always turn around remember

Talk to him...thats all you can do just tell him that you dont like but to me in a way i think its a good thing cuz hes not just callin you his friend hes saying best friend meaning that you guys are really close and he likes it that way....just appreciate the fact that you live by him now cuz who knows maybe he will start to miss being with you and you might get back together but dont try and break anybody up just go wit the flow and take things step by step....

I agree with Sean on this ^_^ and yeah, I'd say that it's a combo of all three =p

Thanks guys.. all of these were a tremendus ( wrong spelling ??) help.. like actually..
someone mentioned that id be his back up if they were to break up, and that person is right.. ive decidednot to wait for them to break up, and i wont try and break them up either.. but he was definatly not trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend by telling himself and remindinding him self that we are just friends.. cuz we have done stuff when i first moved back.. and he made it seem like he might break up with her, then completly changed his mind. so its not that.. but all of this advise really helped.. every single bit.. so thank you so much to everyone

Well he likes to be your bestfriend. My boyfriend introduces me as his bestfriend well we are bestfriends we weren't and then about 3 or 4 weeks of daiting we found out that we are bestfriends we tell eachother things we would never tell anyone else and never have.

Mike is right most guys won't introduce you to new people in their lives if they are not with you any more and you don't have to be daiting to be bestfriends.

Aye yi yi naivity haha thats probably nto even a real word but why are so many people so naive... like i did say before he is most likely holding you as back up and if he isnt and hes planning on leaving her.. i dotn know if i said this already but whats stopping him from doign the same to you?? he finds a girl that he likes better then you so then he dumps you for him but yeah if you decide to not wait for him ill be happy for you = ]

Awwwww.. i really am the lucky one arnt i??
wow.. i do feel better.. ill just wait it out and see what happens i guess..
thanx everyone :)
and thanx mike :)

:)

Lol how do ya like the game going on in the other post??
lol

like i feel like second choice.. yet first choice at the same time with him though