Lesbien

Wooooooo! hold on!

i was skimming through your comments, like you do. and i have nothing wrong with lesbians or anything like that, being bi myself. but one message caught my eye. someone put "lesbian HA HA HA" (or sumut like that.)

but its no laughing matter! seriously, being confused about your sexuality can mess people up. so all i have to say to this person, who wrote this comment is **** ******* **** ******** ***** ******* *** ******* ***!!!!!!!!
that is all...

Im a lesbian XD

Let me give you the best advice I can. Dont label yourself just yet, it will just further cofuse you and make things harder in relationships in the future. Right now just allow your mind to think that you could like either...

I too like girls and struggled with my identity to an extreme point. I urge you to just go with your heart (as hard as that might be) because if you do label yourself now those words might come back to haunt you. I have gone through that same situation and at times still wonder. But I understand and if you need anyone to talk to about this feel free to contact me I will do anything to help and prevent someone from feeling what I used to....

Just because you think about girls, or deem them hot ect.. Doesn't make you a lesbian. It's natural for us too look at other girls... we often compare them to ourselves, or how they look in those jeans...ect.

Don't label yourself, and keep your mind open. You and you alone will find the answer...

It depends?
You could be bi....
or just not like guys
or be one of those people
who check out the same sex but that's it.
A lot of people I know do that, and they're straight.
Its normal?
I dk...

You could be bi, or....
ur b/f could just be less attractive to ya.
Or u could be bi-curious.
But that is what I think, hun.

Well hell find a new bf.....come live with me lol
i dunno only be a lesbian is i get pics =]
just playin

Well as a lot of the others said start by leaving your bf. If someone threatens to kill you they don't love you!
Second go out meet girls and guys and maybe you find someone you like don't think too much about being a lesbian or not. you'll find out if you ever falls in love with a girl and about being bi you'll know if you still likes the guys too.

And who ever said this was just to get attention why don't you go write somewhere else? My best friend was 21 before she fell in love with a girl for the first time, she said she thought she liked the guys she had been with but knew better after meeting her girlfriend, so just because you're not a teen doesn't meen you can't be confussed or be unsure.

And yeah I'm a lesbian too.