Lookin my girl in the eye

Ok i never was good at lookin people in the eye...is there any tips for helping me.

Ok ty...i dont think the glasses will work but how do u sugest i work on that????????

If you want to learn how to look someone in their eyes you first have to learn confidence. This is a real hard thing to do. An easy way to gain confidence is to look in the mirror each day and tell yourself 3 things you like about yourself. This has helped me. When other people lack confidence help them by being confident. xxx

Look at yourself in the mirror. Stare at yourself for 3 minutes straight. It's an exercise I had to do for Drama to make myself cry, laugh, smile, furious. But the bottom line is that it builds your confidence. Eyes are a very powerful thing. Once you master the art of reading and looking into your own eyes, you will automatically be able to look into the eyes of others.

Well ty gus very much

Well i normally dont look anyone in the eyes, but i tried it and i feel way ...i dunno i guess you could say closer, to her, i didnt think it would do that!

"If you like the girl or love her or whatever then you should be able to look at her in the eyes, not that hard."

It can be 'hard' for some people. Hence, the dude is asking for help. As much as I love Farhad's eyes, at first I honestly could not look deep into them. I was held back by this random shyness I've never felt in my life; but overcame it once I knew how much he meant to me.

Can i just ask why i mean i really dont see the big deal i mean unless your talkin and lying to them. But yea all i can say is maybe dont stand as close to them so your not right in thier face or something..i dont really know what to say i cant say this has ever happened to me.

I had a guy, a friend, tell me once, that i am one of the only women who consistently looks him in the eye.. and i was like, well gee, why not?

i tell you, there is nothing i love more than looking deep into my boyfriend's eyes and knowing exactly what he is thinking..

also, i look everyone in the eyes because it shows that they dont scare/intimidate me.

Why can't you look her in the eyes, what are you afraid of?

^ Come on don't attack the guy now.

You know whats really funny.i had the same problem as you except all me and him could do was look into eachothers eyes.not tslk.until today.. go on being yoourself catch his eye a few times you'll get use to it.have confidence...

Wow this topic is old lol...ummive gotten a little better at eye contact but its still hard =[

Uuummm...i don't have any problem with looking people in the eye. when i'm talking to someone, i look them straight in the eye. some people think i'm weird cuz i do that, hardly blinking, but it's how i was raised. when you're talking to someone, they expect you to look them in the eye.

I am the same way, I don't like looking people in the eye, well aside from those I am close with, it feels too personal, but I am working on it lol

Look at them in the eye's............. then think of potato's while you're doing it =p... it works trust me =p

HAHA ok ill try thinkin there potatoes lol