All cheaters here

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Hahaha

    is there anyone in this sites was cheated there love ones

    just leave some lines here

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    Sure, when I was a kid my little sister had hearing problems and I would use this fact to swap copper coins I had with silver and gold ones she had by confusing her with fast talk.

    It was mean, very nasty and even to this day, 20 years later I still say sorry to her occasionally and buy her little presents etc...because it was the only horrid thing I ever did...aside from all the healthy bullying that older brothers need to give their little sisters to make them strong like bull.

  • Im So OVER IT
    17 years ago

    Yea. I cheated on these two guys last year. I didnt think I was dating both of them I was just dating one. One was a Sexy mexican name Marcus. The other was a white boy who thinks he's black named William. Marcus went to night school. I was dating William. In between class I would see William. Then during class I would text Marcus. He would always tell me Im gorgeous. William just hugged me and never talk. The Valentine's was coming up. Marcus asked me what me and Im were doing. I told him nothing cuz I have a boyfriend. And he was like you told me you didnt have one. I was like I have had one the whole time. He was like i cant believe you, I really liked you. I was like you never asked me out. He was like im not your holla bacl boy. Then I said I was sorry. He didnt text back. Then I saw William in the hall way. He was like hey baby. I was like we have to talk. He was like whats up. And I was like we are working out good. He was like why. I was like cuz Ive been talking to this other guy. HE was like you been cheating on me. I was like no. I was just texting him. He was like that still cheating cuz you called him baby. I was like well were over end of story. The next day he sitting on the bench with tears going down his face. I asked him whats wrong. He said My father died yesterday. I asked him if there was anything I could do. He said leave me alone. your the last one I want to be comforted by. Shoot I learned my lesson

    And Now just this past year my ex David cheated on me. here's the story.
    I just got home after winning my basketball game. I call him. He sounds like something is wrong. He tells me I dont want to know. I told him to just let it out. He told me that slept with some girl, but he was high. I asked him when and he said yesterday. I was like the day I went to the hospital for a ekg and heart sound. he said yea. He asked me if I was mad. I said no. I told him forgive and forget. we got off the phone and I cried like a river. 2 days later I broke up with him.To this day I cry when I think about him or the song you should have said no. And like everything between me and him is destroyed. Funny thing is he is the first guy I ever loved and the first guy to break my heart all at once...

  • abracadabra
    17 years ago

    I cheated on a test in music history once. I asked a trick question to the teacher, and she basically told me the answer. I was a cunning, cunning little girl.

    Cheated on a relationship? Never. Not technically.

    I have deceived some people, especially my younger sister, with imaginative tales of my power, for my power. But that's just being intelligent.

  • Just Jo
    17 years ago

    I've kissed another guy before, when i was already taken
    But techincally we were on the verge of finishing anyway infatc i'd decided that i didnt want to be with him anymore anyway

    and now 4 months on im back with him
    do you think he should know about it
    or should i just think of it as a new realtionship and a new start?

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    I would never in a million years cheat on someone im going out with. in my very first relationship i was cheated on. and it hurt. and id never put anyone through that

    however i have cheated on many tests..one just on tuesday even...and ive cheated at games..lol against my cousin who was about 8 at the time and i was like....13? 14? idk. and we were playing uno and i made up rules so i could win. haha oops =]

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Ha i would never ever cheat on my bf in my life who ever does that should be shot

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    Lol ^^ I have never cheated on someone. Not like that. I don't necessarily cheat on tests. Oh well.

  • omgitsmina
    17 years ago

    I've cheated on a guy before, but he cheated on me, so we're square.

  • PnQ Mod Account
    17 years ago

    Please stay on topic and do not turn threads into chat sessions.

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    I think the staying on topic call should be made by the thread creator don't you Ann?

    Or maybe I'm cheating.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I've never cheated on anyone, and I never plan to.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    It is becomming a pattern and a bad habit of other people turning threads into a private conversation.

    No, Kevin, I do not think that it should be up to the person who started the thread.

    Turning threads into a personal conversation is point blank rude and a distraction to everyone else.

    If you want to have a friendly "chat" per say then take it to the friendship forum and start your own thread there.

    Also, any thread in the public forums that strays off the topic and into sexual content the way this one did is not permitted.

    Though you were not involved in the "discussion" that took place earlier it was out of line and consider this a warning for everyone that next time instead of me deleting the post I will also hand out penalty points.

    Kevin, I ask you the respectfully. Please allow us to do our jobs without the constant arguements and without telling us what our jobs are or how to do them.

    Frankly, I think we do a pretty darn good job considering the circumstances.

    ~~Sher

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    Is public relations part of your job Sherry? How about a sense of humour and the understanding that I wasn't having a dig at you guys and perhaps you have all got rather oversensitive to even the slightest hint...the smallest whiff of even partial questioning of anything you all do?

    Bottom line, I was only jesting, hence the "maybe I'm cheating" in reference to the topic...or maybe I wasn't. Your response was over the top regardless.

    I think we're all getting a bit sick of Moderators regularly going on about how hard their job is and how much respect they should get for doing it, as if some terrible cross has been placed upon your shoulders for life!

    You all volunteered for the Job! Quit if you don't like it.....I did, and even knowing how much stick I'd take if I came back I still tried.....being a Mod isn't easy but you all choose to do it so really, I think you should all relax, let go of the uber defensiveness to your stations.

    It's really hard to warm to the Mod team when you can't joke around with them like regular people...especially when many Mods have regular jokes at members, many of them Mod/member related jokes.

    ; )

    Also do you really think it's appropriate to say that the next time someone goes off topic sexually you won't give them the benifit of the doubt and give instant penalty points? I don't think that is fair. Case by case my dear. You might not like me telling you how to do your job, but Mods have no problem telling us how to conduct ourselves within a lazy rules interpretation system...I'm challenging your interpretation of the rules, not you as a person.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Also, any thread in the public forums that strays off the topic and into sexual content the way this one did is not permitted.

    Though you were not involved in the "discussion" that took place earlier it was out of line and consider this a warning for everyone that next time instead of me deleting the post I will also hand out penalty points.

    ^^^^
    I take it that you did not read my post closely. I said if it goes towards the sexual "talk" that this thread was at earlier. There is no reason or benifit of the doubt that needs to be given for that.

    Maybe you were just joking, Kevin. But honestly, how often do you put your two cents in and try to dictate what we should or should not do.

    Yes, we volunteered for this job because we love this site; however, dear sir, that does not mean that we have to take all the cow poop thrown at us.

    I am tired and all the grief that is dished out towards us is bull and you have to admit that yourself.

    ~~Sher

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    Fair point, you guys do take alot of bull, but then so does anyone who stands up and challenges the Mods, like me for example.

    Every time i even hint that you guys might have crossed a line or perhaps responded to someone in a less than mature way, usually 3 or 4 Mods post within a very short space of time and try to shout me down....there are countless examples of this, some of the rather personal and I think, disrespectful.

    So it works both ways. You say you are sick of the BS you all have to deal with. I say it's part of the job, not pleasant of course and I don't condone people being negative about you guys when it's done without evidence or maturity and intelligence...still, you will always have it so long as you as a group try to hold onto controlling a large group of people, some of them very strong, intelligence individuals.

    I say let go of the reigns a bit more....the people who really need to be controlled are few and far between...the JPM's and Ismails are quite rare and most of us require only the occasional polite charming reminder...not threats and adult/child sounding tellings off.

    I hope this helps...

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    Almost as if by magic, I predict to Sherry what happens when someone challenges the Mods...and shazaam!....in pops a Mod who tries to shout me down. I wonder who will be next?

    I don't think I will keep my ideas to myself thanks Amanda, they are not rude so I feel justified in airing them as an appropriate response to Sherry's rather over the top messages to us.

    Maybe if you'd asked Sherry to calm down too, but I understand the unity ethos of the Mods, even in the face of faults on their part, it's always the members fault and they take the blame and must shut up or leave or be punished.

    great options. I wasn't trying to insult anyone, Sherry was out of order, talking to us like children in one group when a more tactgul way to handle the situation would have been to show humour and character.

    I am quite happy on this site cheers....

    So on topic.

    So, cheating is wrong if the rules are fair...if the rules aren't fair then cheating is sometimes needed to even the playing field, so to speak.

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    "Sherry was out of order, talking to us like children in one group when a more tactgul way to handle the situation would have been to show humour and character."

    ^^^ I do not believe that I was out of order. I was replying to your comment point blank.

    I also added the part about the "sexual" content that was posted in clarification as to why those post had been deleted and as a final warning.

    I have never ever said that it is always the members fault. Half the time when something seems out of line I say that it is only me being cranky for some reason or another.

    Do not put words in my mouth. Tell me, Kevin, tell me one time that I have ever ever uttered or near whispered the words that the mods are always right and the members are always wrong?

    You can't... because I have never said such a thing nor would I.

    If you are quite happy on this site as you say then let's be peaceful and stop all the complaining and dictating.

    I find nothing humourous about what was posted earlier nor will I approach it with humour. If it was in a club then that would be different. I can talk just as dirty as everyone else when I choose too, but it will not be tolerated on the main forums.

    I also will not sit idly by and watch someone try to tie our hands and force us to give to what they see best instead of what all the mods have agreed upon.

    This is not a game Kevin, nor should it be treated as such.

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    Sherry might have been right, but I think her method, her approach was too heavy handed which in turn inspired a response. If she had been a bit more gentle I would never have challenged her.

    I don't pick at everything, sometimes I'm quite supportive of the Mods and I certainly care about this website.

    But I don't want to dance around then block again with you guys, I'm not promising anything in terms of conduct...i stick to the rules as much as I can...if I do stray, or if anyone does within the confines of a debate I expect to be reminded with respect, understanding and a friendly attitude, otherwise what do you expect to get in response?

    If you talk down to someone and threaten them, you will get that in kind back, or you should expect to.

    Sherry, I am sorry if I seemed to be insulting you or the Moderator team, that was not my intent as I hope can be divined from my posts.

    Nuff said then.

  • Alexis
    17 years ago

    Hey kevin and moderators your all off topic and having a conversation on here, but im not

    No i have not cheated yet, but i probanly will some day but not while im married or in a serious realtionship or anything like that you know just the ones that are just for my sexual enjoyment not meaning sex but to get held and mess around every now and then

  • Infected with His Deadly Love
    17 years ago

    I have never cheated on a guy.
    But I have cheated on a test.

  • Noir
    17 years ago

    Strangely no even with my loose liberalism... I'm still a lil conservative

  • Kevin
    17 years ago

    I think most people know they are going to cheat long before they do. They start thinking about other people, you know noticing them and speaking to them in a certain way.

    I've seen it so many times, though never cheated on anyone myself...what can I say I'm a child of divorce and I've seen the damage a nasty breakup can cause.

  • Narphangu
    17 years ago

    I've cheated WITH somebody who was already...occupied?
    But then I woke up, and that was that. Not to mention the person was a movie star anyway. So I guess I sorta fail at the cheating thing? Do you think I can cheat the cheating? Hmm.

    I HAVE cheated on tests. Many, many times. I'm bad. So bad.

    But it feels good
    Dunna nunna nunna na
    I knew that it would....

    So good
    (duh duh)
    So good
    (...)
    I got you!
    Doo Doo Doo DOO!

    I'm Narphangu, and I approve this message.
    XP

  • waiting 4 some1
    17 years ago

    WOOOOW many cheaters on this world and then someone will say "why did he trick/leave/cheated on me?" lol

    there are many cheaters so i won't be surprised to be cheated if i wasn't careful.

    NEVER CHEATED ON A GIRL
    well its not like i had many lol

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Hmmmm.. now i know im not all alone hehehe

    thanks guys.......

    any cheaters there?

  • The Tears I bleed
    17 years ago

    My bf cheated on me... he was a player before he dated me then he cheated on me... sorta puts some truth into the saying you cant change a lepards spots...

  • T uh Belle lll
    17 years ago

    I always try to cheat, but honestly, i have no idea how.

  • Narphangu
    17 years ago

    That's okay, I'll teach you.

    =]

    Shall we choose a target and start experimenting?

  • T uh Belle lll
    17 years ago

    My math exam tomorrow, any ideas of ways i can cheat?

    Karma better not come around and bite me, is there anyway to cheat karma/?

  • Christina
    17 years ago

    Nopers lol!

  • Tiffany
    17 years ago

    I've cheated on a test once, but the whole class did: my lote teacher had the answers on the back of the sheet he was reading from, and everyone was like staring at it when he walked past. hahaha. everyone did reli well on that test, but that was a minor test, like a spelling test, i suppose, for LOTE.

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    This is bout cheating to our love ones guys!!!

  • Suicidal Love
    17 years ago

    Is flirting cheating? coz if it is then yeah i've cheated

  • Trying To Love Is The Hardest Thing
    17 years ago

    Truth..
    I have.
    But he did to.
    So we are even.

  • Gizmo
    17 years ago

    I played 4 guys off against eachother. one was my bf of 1.5 years. not proud. complete regret. i was young. and stupid

  • Mello193
    17 years ago

    Hell no, cheating is wrong. Another girl kissed me while I was with my girlfriend, but it was not something I enjoyed...she just planted it on me....