Appreciate "her"

APPRECIATE HER
this is one of my favorite it's been written by my freind and it's really worth it 2read it ! IT'S FOR ALL U GUYS ...just have a look

Tomorrow u may propose a working woman,but you should marry with these facts firmly grounded in your mind.....

* ========== Here is a girl, who is as much educated as u are;who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as u have because she is as human as u are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like u or ur sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession 2 girls 4 their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as u do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed 2leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, 2adopt ur home, ur family, ur ways and even ur family name.

One, who is somehow expected 2be a master-chef from day #1, while u sleep oblivious 2her predicament n her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen,

One, who is expected 2make tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as u are, maybe more,and yet never ever expected 2complain; 2be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like u are as2what u want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that u won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than
u;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing 2put all that on the back-burners 2avoid ur irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and ur inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as u can, but won't, simply becz u won't like it, even though u say otherwise ,

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like urs, are 2be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants 2make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if u just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from u, as u are the only one she knows in your entire house -
Your unstinted support, Your sensitivities and most importantly - YOUR UNDERSTANDING, UR LOVE, if u may call it.

But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER" ========== *