I don't understand

Love is something i just don't
understand
one minute it makes you happy,
the next so sad

A wise woman once told me
that
It's not about who you love
but how you love

but then again how do you
love?
do you buy someone a gift?
do you tell them you love them
everyday?

or say your vows to each
other
in front of a church full
of people over and over again
Love is a feeling
Love is an emotion
you don't really know
how it feels until you felt it
And that's why i don't
understand