Is Love Good If It Ruins Lives

So my door was open
I even paved the way
You never saw fit
To give the time of day

I put it all on the line
Thinking of you
Ruined everything
That I went through

I had someone good
And now shes very much gone
For the reason I couldn't
Leave thoughts of you alone

I failed to realize
The good that was present
Because your lingering ghost
Brought about decadence

I put to much hurt
On her fragile heart
And the blame was mine
From the very start

Though you've ruined
My very delicate life
I'd still take a shot at us
To see if it was worth the strife