Some Common-Sense Love Advice

by ChildofGod87   Apr 18, 2005


Here's some common-sense love advice:

♥ 1. Try not to criticize your partner. A major benefit of being in a healthy relationship is the built-in support it provides.

♥ 2. Sometimes our own feelings of self-doubt can manifest as a lack of trust in our partner. Talk to a psychic before accusing your mate of something that may not be true.

♥ 3. Leave job-related stress at the front door. Don't let outside concerns interfere with one-on-one time at home.

♥ 4. Don't wait for a special occasion to say 'I love you.' Say it when you feel it! Your spontaneity will not go unappreciated.

♥ 5. Fight fair. Be mindful of how you phrase things when arguing. Avoid loaded words, which sound accusatory or judgmental. Don't use "you always" or "you never."

♥ 6. Never assume your partner can read your mind! Even psychics aren't mind readers, but they can help you clarify what you want from a relationship.

♥ 7. Couples can seem like they're talking different languages. True communication goes both ways, and listening can be the most difficult part. Do you hear each other?

♥ 8. If your job demands all your attention, you're probably not paying enough attention to your significant other. Surprise this person with their favorite flowers or a love note left for them to discover.

♥ 9. Make the effort to check with your romantic partner before scheduling any plans. Even if you know she or he is most likely to say yes, it's always nice to be asked than assumed.

♥ 10. A healthy relationship is not magic. It requires regular nurturing and as much effort as you put into your job at work.

♥ 11. It's true. Silence is golden. Sure, it's important to share. But if you're always talking, you might not hear anything your mate is saying. Worse, things may go unsaid. Practice taking turns just listening.

♥ 12. Can't we all just get along? We all have different ways of coping with stress, anxiety and grief. When you can identify how your mate copes, and you can avoid escalating tensions.

♥ 13. Is this room smaller or have you grown? It's important to know when to let the person you care about have some extra space. If you're unsure, get feedback from someone objective, like your psychic.

♥ 14. I like you just the way you are? Before asking your partner to change certain habits, think about the necessity of the request. Is it important or might it be a struggle for control?

♥ 15. Marvelous, dah-ling! It's always nice to DA a compliment from a stranger, but praise from someone special is even more gratifying. Tell your loved one just how wonderful he or she is today.

♥ 16. Is your body a temple? When you take care of yourself in body and mind, you're showing the ultimate respect for those you love – and those who love you.

♥ 17. Spice things up! How about a stroll under a moonlit sky, hand-in-hand with your sweetheart? Even better. Pack a picnic with in-the-mood food. A nice wine, imported chocolates and fresh strawberries should be enough to wet anyone's appetite.

**This is what I've find and thought of sharing it for all of ya!! Hope you enjoined!!**
-x-Sedusha-x-

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