Why bother?

I noticed a woman wandering by she seemed troubled yet refused 2 cry.
i asked her whats the matter and she replied,
wot kind of person am i if i don\'t even have time to mourn my husband anymore, if I'm too busy to be with my son in his moments of triumph if I'm not there to protect my daughter.
there wasn\'t much that could say to comfort her yet now I\'m wondering what type o person is anyone if they don't have Time for anything?
what is the point of worrying about jobs or bills?
either way we all end up underground and a fading memory.
so why bother with the unimportant?