This is what I don\'t understand.
Men sit and question and whine,
thats girls are only attracted to the mean guys,
the guys who berate them and belittle them,
and don\'t appreciate them and don\'t want them.
Those who use them for sex
and thing of little else than where their next
conquest will be made.
Men complain that they never meet nice girls,
girls who are genuinely interested and compelling.
Who are intelligent and sweet and smart and beautiful
Men despair that no good women want to share in their lives
that girls play mind games
that girls love to keep them hanging.
Yet men, I ask you.
were you to meet on of these
genuinely interested, thrillingly compelling
interesting and intelligent and sweet and beautiful
and smart girls,
were you to give her your number and wait for her to call. and if you were to receive a cal from her the next day
and she, in her truthful, loyal, intelligent
and straightforward, nice girl fashion,
were to tell you that she finds you intriguing, and attractive, and interesting
and worth her time and perhaps material from which she could
fashion a boyfriend
would you or would you not
immediately call your friends to tell them
of the stalker chick
you met the night prior who called you and wore her on her sleeve.
and told the truth
and would you or would you not
refuse to make plans with her, speak with her.
see her again and once again return to the bar or club or party scene and search once more for this
nice girl who you just can not seem to find
because in there lies the truth guys
we nice girls are everywhere
but your not looking for a nice girl.
your not looking for someone
genuinely interesting in your inter mural basketball game
or your anatomy midterm grade
or that argument you keep having with your father.
your looking for a quick fix
a night when you can pretend to have a connection with another human being
which is just as disposable as the condom
you were using during it.
