To kiss and further?

Ok...I met this very nice guy and I like him and he likes me. So after meeting him 2 times, he suggests that we should go into the forest, start kissing and hugging. But now hes suggesting touching me and such. I really dont feel like doing it bvecause Im afraid that Ill catch like a disease or something like that. Help?

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww SO CUTE!!

*hugs you*

It sounds like you must have been napping in school and skipping a few chapters of the textbook that deals with sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). At least you seem to take a cautious outlook, which is much better than taking the opposite approach.

I'd suggest that you get yourself over to Google and find some resources to learn how STDs are spread, how they can be prevented and what you need to know to protect yourself.

Based on what I briefly saw in your profile, for someone in your shoes this knowledge should be VITAL!

Good luck.

Do Only What You Think Is Best For You, Never Let Someone Push You Outside Your Comfort Zone, Its Great That He Likes You And Everything....But Yet Your Still Aware Of The Diseases And Risk In The World...I Can Give You Advice All Day...But The Choice Is Totally Up To You....Ask Yourself Micheal What Do You Want....Then Ask Yourself Is It Best? xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

You wont get a disease from 'touching' him.

Don't do anything you are not comfortable with...and after meeting two times, I would say no, even though diseases aren't exactly spread by just "touching"...ever have sex ed?

If you don't want to, don't. If you're scared, don't. If you do want to but you're worried, do a little bit of research. The best thing would be to talk to him, but I suppose that can be harder than it sounds. Good luck~
-Jaime

"Don't do anything you are not comfortable with...and after meeting two times, I would say no, even though diseases aren't exactly spread by just "touching"

^I agree very much with that.

//Ari\\

You shouldn't rush into anything like that. I mean kissing is fine but you should wait awhile before the touchy feely crap. Save it for the future when you find someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with.

Thx for the responses every1. But dont get the wrong idea. Hes very nice and wouldn't rush into things. Im just really afraid to reject him in this situation.

Yes, I am gay. I thought every 1 knew....didn't any1 read my poems?

He's obviously gay...did you not read his post? Lol.

Michael, just do what you're comfortable with. :) In the long run, if it's what you want, than everything's good.

//Ari\\

I suggest that you talk to him about it. Tell him that you like him, but you aren't ready to go past kissing yet. If he likes you like he says, then he will respect that and wait until you are ready. Just don't do anything that you don't want to do, okay.
~BJ~

I know seriously. If you read his profile and poems you would know he's gay. Oh and even if you are afraid to turn him down. You just tell him you don't feel it's the right time. Ask him if he would wait until you feel ready. Going further then kissing is something that should be shared with the one you love. At a older age that is. I hate people who rush into it.

I realized you were gay and that was specifically why I added the last paragraph to my post above. But, gay or straight, it sould be vital for everyone to understand how to avoid the risk of STDs.