scared..

Aw that's so cute :) It's perfectly normal to feel that way and to be scared of losing her dont worry you will not lose her, best of luck

thats cool you don't want to rush things and know you're not pathetic just go w/ the flow she'll come around know here's my question for you the guy who insists he loves me but is dating my bff had to "let me go" even though i really didn't want i excepted it but how do i get through to him it's not the way it has to be?

if its meant to be things will take care of themselves .... just do your best and im sure it will work out ...best of luck

Yeah It's ok to be scared. Good luck with her.
Lotsa luv
Shy

I have only got one thing to say. This girl is lucky. And I now that it is hard to wait and to read the signals. But this girl has got to feel the love that you have for her if it is truely as strong as you say.

Awe that's not pathetic, it's cute. Good luck with things~

I don't really have any advice, you seem to be doing everything right already, taking things slow and giving her space if she needs it.

Again, good luck :)

nah dont say bad things about yourself well you should show her all the love you have for her and take it step by step and talk to her and tell her if she is ready to take anoter step but dont try to seem like your forcing her koo ok

ohhh that is really cute!!

just try to relax, and take it one step at a time. don't be too shy to take any risks, because if nobody took risks then NOBODy would be together. If you start moving too fast, or are moving too slow, then she'll probably tell you.

I totally agree with you, Ruben.

Honest communication is far better than guessing games which always leave the door open to mistaken assumptions. Also, once you have established a bridge of open and honest communication, it is easier to build mutual trust and emotional intimacy, two essential elements in a successful relationship.

The only caution I would have is to steer away from saying anything that might make her feel like she is being pressured or put on the spot. But you don't really seem like the kind of guy that would do that anyway. Best of luck to you.

ruben,
yeah, i just wanted advice of what i should do and was hoping a guy could help me

pssht, where do you get YOUR information man?! i'm a girl....and i WANT affection....and i don't necessarily want THE best guy around, because then all the other girls will be all over him....and *I*, will get jealous LOL....

so, my friend, i have to say, you are VERY, VERY wrong =)

or are you just saying all this shtuff to mess with poeple's minds...? *raises eyebrows* lol

huh? you didn't make any sense lol...

nvm, my friend read it, and he got it....must be a guy thing....or, it might just be that i'm a dumba-- lol....

wow,
thanx for that it'll really help me! :P

Ruben, i'm glad there are guys out there like you, and it's great you don't want to pretend affection, you want it to be authentic. That, to me, is awesome =D....if only more guys were like you =P

goodluck with everything =)

I kinda get what finbar's on bout. weird.

Lv A, x