what do you like and hate about yourself?

  • Cimara
    19 years ago

    Alritey guys, we are so hung up on looking good and being perfect...i want you to say 3 things that you dislike about yourself and try and say 10..yes 10 things that you love about yourself. It can be about looks and physcial appearance or it can be about personality and characteristics etc...
    The aim of this task is to realise that everyone has more good things about them than bad!
    I'll start...

    Things i dislike:
    1. i don't like my legs
    2. i dont like being shy sometimes
    3 i dont like having pale skin.

    Things i like:
    1. i like my blue eyes
    2. i like my nose
    3 i like that i am mature
    4. i like that i am strong
    5. i like my fingernails..haha
    6. i like being ambitious
    7. i like being able to help people and i like it that people come to me for help.
    8. i like my teeth
    9. i like that i am intelligent
    10. i like that i am a good public peaker.

    there ya go..its hard but i know you guys can do it!!

  • Jacklyn
    19 years ago

    Dislikes....

    1. i miss most of the oppertunities to talk to the guys i like which kind of turns them away for me then hate myself later!
    2. that i'm almost too shy
    3. i don't like my anckles

    my likes

    1. i'm smart
    2. learn fast
    3. bold
    4. i like my feet, compared to the others i've seen
    5. maturer then almost my entire class
    6. i like my hands
    7. the fact that others trust me
    8. that i have a good relationship with my mom
    9. that i do things for passion, not money
    10. that i'm not selfish and listen to other's needs when they need me

    ~Jacklyn

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Hate:

    1. My body/weight
    2. Lack of confidence/how much i put myself down
    3. The fact I care too much

    Like:
    In no particular order:

    1. My artistic ability
    2. My lips (strange I know:P)
    3. My intelligence (hard to believe :P)
    4. My ability to make new friends
    5. My "outgoing"ness
    6. Sense of humour
    7. Acceptance of people
    8.My hands (for drawing of course :) )
    8. My weirdness :D
    9. Ability to get on with people
    10. How I am able to forgive.

  • Once an Angel
    19 years ago

    Okay first of all this is a really awesome thread, whoever thought of it is a genius! yay!

    Hates:
    1. My fat lard of a body
    2. My scars
    3. My addictions

    Likes: (dang this is hard)
    1. I can write poems
    2. I can draw
    3. able to help people
    4. ability to love/accept people
    5. I sing
    6. my eyes. (they are freakishly cool, but also kinda scary, everyone looks at them, lol.)
    7. Being single (trying hard to be happy with this)
    8. A few really get friends
    9. Can make friends easily
    10. Able to stand up for myself, fight my own battles

  • Just me
    19 years ago

    LIkes
    1.everything about me
    Dislikes
    1.well okay i wish my teeth were whiter!

  • VioletRaven
    19 years ago

    I agree with Crazy Water Bottle

    I hate
    1. My body
    2. My low self esteem/other problems
    3. Not being able to say the things that I feel.

    Things I like
    1. I just admited my hates instead of keeping them inside
    2. Sometimes I can be brave, like going to get help, even when its really scary
    3. That I talk to people online, cause usually I'm afraid of people
    4. My Birthmark
    5. My creativity
    6. ok...this is getting hard now but I can manage...well there's one, Determination
    7. That I try to help people
    8. The way I look at things differently
    9. My writing
    10. That I managed to think up 9 things I like about myself...it took 28 minutes but I did.

    This thread really helped me. Thank you.

  • ♥•oOo Nikki oOo•♥©
    19 years ago

    What I hate..♥

    1. I Have Big Breast
    2.I Flirt 2 Much
    3. I Can't Have a Long Term Relationship

    What I like..♥
    1. My Growth In Poetry
    2. Maturity Level
    3. Sweet Soul
    4. Loveable Personality
    5. Funny
    6. My Hair
    7. My Taste In Music/Literature
    8. The Way My Eyes Glow
    9. The Way I Luv 2 Learn

    Wow...I Can Find More Hate Then Luv♥
    ♥♥
    xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

  • JL
    19 years ago

    Hate
    *being pessimistic
    *my vision
    *low self esteem
    *Judgemental
    *When I cry
    Like
    *I write instead of bottling up emotions
    *my intelligence
    *I'm athletic
    *My diverse backround

  • Void
    19 years ago

    It won't let me post the full message :S...
    Sorry for the wasted space *sigh*

  • Once an Angel
    19 years ago

    No, not a waste lol. this is. :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :0 I got tired, lol.

  • juss an allycat
    19 years ago

    Dislike:
    1. The fact I have vision loss
    2. I'm heavier then i would like to be
    3. How I am unforgiving, though a lot of the time I do believe people deserve it if they've done something wrong

    Likes:
    1. my talents in hockey
    2. my talents in singing
    3. after many years: my hair
    4. my lips =D
    5. my toned arms
    6. how i am committed to learning and recieving an education
    7. how i am learning to accept myself. its a great feeling
    8. how i'm slowly not letting unworthy people's negative opinions get to me
    9. how i am successful at most that i attempt
    10. i dunno..maybe that i know where my loyalties lie

  • Krysten
    19 years ago

    dislikes....

    1: i tend to be shy
    2: i'm terrified of the dark
    3: i tend to screw over the good things in my life

    likes...

    1: my scars-each tells a story and is a part of me
    2: the fact im friendly with everyone
    3: i usually have good judgement
    4: i'm a great listener
    5: i stick up for what i belive in
    6: im a very loyal friend/girl friend
    7: my eyes
    8: my hair (though its always changein' color
    9: my fashion sense
    10: my southern accent

  • jenn
    19 years ago

    seroiulsy i wont do the list cause i have a short amount of time but i hate everything about me and like nothing.

  • avery
    19 years ago

    hate:
    -im really shy
    -i cant seem to get a boyfriend
    -i hate my looks
    -my smile [i barely even smile because of it]
    -my bad habits
    -when i say stupid stuff and dont even realize it
    -i snap at my parents and dont even know it
    -i dont have the nerve to stand up for myself
    -me

    like:
    -i can be invisible easily
    -nothing else?

  • Cimara
    19 years ago

    Bob, i understand what you're saying, but the idea of this thread is to show that there is things we dislike about ourselves (well most people dislike things about themself) yet there is many, many more things that we like about ourselves..if only we take the time to think about it. It is supposed to be a positive thread..i hope most of you take it in a positive and uplifting way.

    Thanks to everyone who has responded..i enjoy reading what you write and i hope you've all got something out of it.

    take care all xoxo

  • megan
    19 years ago

    Dislikes
    ~ skin, too pale and too icky!
    ~ body shape
    ~ pessimistic views
    ~ thin lips

    Likes
    ~ eyes
    ~ my singing ability
    ~ my acting ability
    ~ being good at making mates

  • L T
    19 years ago

    All of you worry too much. Accept who you are. Dwell not on the negatives but the positives. Most people think to harshly of themselves

  • Truest Lies
    19 years ago

    I hate:

    My phobias/fears
    The little roll that appeared around my tum overnight (and here I am, three hours of exercise a day, four days a week, and this is what I get, FAT!!!!!)
    My voice

    I like:

    My hands, they're felxible, I can bend my fingers back, excellent for flamenco
    My arms, also very flexible. My teacher says I have the arm elongation of a profesional flamenco dancer :-)
    My nose, it's slightly pinched, very cute.
    My cats, I LOOOOOVVVEEEE them!!!
    That I seem to attract friends pretty easily, and there I was, thinking that I would never have a friend in my life!
    This funny feeling that I have, in the pit of my heart, that tells me that great things are going to happen to me.
    My eyes. Someone said they looked like a cat's eyes!!
    The little pieces of white I get on my nails, so pretty!
    The fact that I can jump onto the tip of my toes without point shoes.
    I love that I hate people seeing me tired out by dancing. (weird, but it's a great trait to have)
    That someday, I'll take singing lessons, and hopefully develop a great singing voice.
    Making people laugh
    Knowing I'm loved
    That I'm going to get my own room, and even though it's tiny I'm allowed to pain the walls. I'm going to scribble on them..celtic designs and such.

    //Truest Lies//