Rejection...:P:(

we've all been rejected at least once...so tell us u'r most painful rejection...we're all friends..:))

Honestly, I have only ever been rejected once. And it was not that bad really. I asked some guy to dance, and he said no. Did not hurt at all.

I asked a guy out and he said I'll tell you tomorrow.

When he didn't talk to me again, my friend told me he started going out with his ex girlfriend.

im so scared of rejection that i dont try unless im sure i'll get what i want. rejection is all that i fear.

there was this boy i liked this past school year and he knew how i felt but he never gave me a chance and i did ask him to prom but he said no..rejection hurts when it's all you've ever felt

I asked God to come down from heaven and explain himself.

And nothing happened. That hurt.

Girls never say no to me...though sometimes they giggle and walk away....I take that as a compliment and move on to the next sucker.

huh huh huh.

One time I walked up to this guy at a dance and started talking.
He walked away.
I found it hilarious more than anything, actually.

Well this girl told me that she would give me answer after summer when band camp started. She said no and yelled at me saying why the hell would i go out with you it sorta hurt but got over it.

I've been rejected a few times (I'm terrible at keeping a secret), but the girls were always very nice about it, they all sort of hurt the same way I suppose.

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BTW, nice one Kevin

kevin you are hilarious!! ehh the only time i can think of that i was rejected was 8th grade. i had a huge crush on this guy, Jackson. One day, i approached him just to say hi and he said "get away from me! you are the most pathetic lifeform of the human race." i think i was more taken aback and stunned than actually hurt.

when my Grandmas dog stopped coming near me
:( I miss jo-jo...the old fart...LMAO I am actually serious

i have been rejected by LOTS of guys, but i think i have to be more secure with myself first, so it doesnt bother me.

"of all the things i fear, loving you is what i fear the most."

That is my favorite quote of all time... and sometimes it is true.

The guy I love, yes love, and who I had solid proof liked me a lot, turned me down.

Not only did he turn me down, he told me that I never had a chance and that he was sick of me being pathetic. He said he hated that I was always "woe is me" and he hated the fac that I was hung up on him....

I still love him...

He was right...

aww...

im gonna hurt him now rave...

^that's confusing... sounds like a story you should post in the love forum.

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dembit, you were too fast AGAIN!

I've never been rejected but I have rejected many, and soon after I knew how much I hurt this one person...I will never forgive myself for how I acted on that day.

IM SORRY!!!!!!

really, i am... she does have MANY poems on that subject.

but she should post it in the love forum

i am gonna hurt him...

IN HIS FEELINGS!!!! hahaha...

I don't do teh love posting thing, I only posted it here, cuz well, ally made me, and you people don't know me.

Don't mean to sound rude. It's just how I feel about the situation...

t's your own business, I was just saying that if you wanted opinions/consolation then you could get it, doesn't bother me in the slightest if you don't.

Rave... i will kill your sad button so you NEVER have to be sad again!!!

and i will gladly do the same for anybody else.

o.0

iono what a sad button is.. but killing it sounds scary. I'm going to try to keep this thread on topic from now on. All references to killing buttons of any type should be sent to the "killing buttons" forum, or left to emails.

Thank you.

v--The post below mine is on topic--v

lol. Rejection...

it hurts, but it's part of life. You can't get accepted without first being rejected.

Is that on topic Sean Allen?

okay... sorry.

lol umm..

rejection is a part of life, but like i said, i have to love myself before anybody else will love me.

I'm with you there.

I love the line in "Dumb and Dumber" where Jim Carrey's character is asking the female lead if she thinks there is any chance they could be together...and she says no, to which he replies

"No chance like 1 in a 100?"

"More like 1 in a million, sorry"

He looks stricken for a second....and then he grins and rubs his hands together

"So you're telling me there's a chance....yeah..I read you"

Nice, and my philosophy...rejection is only a chance to show stupid people the error of their ways...

MAKE THEM LOVE YOU!!

lol but making people love you doesnt always work... sadly! i wish... id have that one guy in half a second! but for all the wrong reasons...

I like your style mr. kevin...

but like ally said, doesn't always work.

and if you make somebody love you, they love you just because you are making them, and not because they want to. i want to be loved for me, because the person wants to love me, not because i am making them.

^^ that was really repetitive...

yeah, but true.

Rejection, hurts. Deal with it.

sorry if that was a tiny bit rude.

When you walk up to that beautiful girl/boy...just remeber.

There is no spoon.

what????

There is no spoon.

It'a a line from the Matrix..something Neo says to himself to help him get past his limitations.

"Do not try to bend the spoon, for that is impossible, merely realize the truth, that there is no spoon."

Whoa...

wowness, that's kinda deepish

Wow this topic is ...wow.

Rejection>Spoons.

*In Amazement.*

rejection sucks. it should be illegalized.

rejection>spoons is kinda a big jump huh?

it does suck, let us form a group to ban it!!!!

i agree! all it does is puts down a persons self confidence, which some people lack a great deal. I hate it.

so true Tammie.

Rejection sucks. Kill it with a pitchfork. and if people already dont have self confidence, that makes them feel worse.

Alright,
This isnt really rejection, but its the worst break up I've ever had.

Story:::
So, my ex bf is a football player. His team made it to states the year we dated. So, being the great gf that I am, traveled an hour and a half from home to surprise him at his champion ship football game. Well, I got there, the game had already started. So I sat in the bleachers until the game was over. THEY WON!! I was so stoked. after his coach gave them the traditional after game speech I walked over to him after that and tapped him on the shoulder. He turned around and i went to give him a hug and he just brushed me off. I thought maybe he was angry because he didnt get all of his playing time. I was a lil pissed off, but just like me, he had his moods. I went home that night not feeling to well and went to sleep pretty early. About an hour after i layed down, the phone rang. I answered it and it was my boyfriends BEST FRIEND, he was calling to break the news that it was over.

So, not only did my boyfriend treat me like shit when i was there to support him, he also didnt even have the balls to tell me how he really felt on his own. Ive realized now, that I'm better off w.o him and plan to live it up being single.

Don't forget, rejection can suck, but most of the time, its for the better =)