My brother hits me

About 5 minutes ago my brother strangled me.
He pushed me against the ground and strangled me.

I dont know what to do my parents dont really care about anything I say and im scared.

I dont know if this is wrong or bad or anything I just dont like it.
Because he was getting too close to me while we were having an arguement so I pushed him softly and so that happened I think its my fault I just dont know.

~Emah

Hmmm. I think he needs a good healthy slap upside the head or something. That isn't even right for him to strangle you. Not now, not ever. Not even over something big or small. Heck my brother and I don't get along, but he's never hurt me on purpose or ever meant for it to hurt really bad.

I think you should ask your brother maybe. Tell him how it made you feel? But I don't know cause if you do that I don't want him to like attack you or something, cause then I'd feel bad since I gave the advice out in the first place.

You could avoid him, but he is your brother so that would be nearly impossable. I really don't know, and I was going to say tell your parents, or a relative or someone close to you. But I don't know if that would help.. I'm sorry dear. I hope you are okay and someone with more advice comes along.

::♥ Megan::

Was it done maliciously? And was it random or provoked?

Just don't give him the opportunity to hit you. If you think there's going to be argument, walk away and just leave it. Don't ever argue back with him, even if he starts it. Just ignore him. Don't go near him. Don't touch him. And certainly don't hit him, even if it is just softly or playfighting.

Seriously. Just don't. It's the only way he'll learn that you're not bothered by him - and then he'll just stop.

yea im with poptart, id hit him in a head, im just not sayin which! :)

and by the way babe, its not your fault if someone hits you. guys shouldnt be hitting girls anyway, it just shows that he's a coward...

How old is your brother?!?

My brother used to hit me all the time...well he still does but now I just fight back. And I really mean FIGHT back... You kinda don't have much of a choice when your parents really don't care. I'm not trying to encourage you to fight him or whatever but yeah. Idk where I'm going with this..lol... I just know what you're going through...

thanks guys.
He has a mental problem...he has slight autism.
I think thats how you spell it but it just means he gets angry easily and things like that.

And so Im blamed for him hitiing me!
~Emah
;(

oh, that changes alot!! i taught an autistic class for 3 years. they are really special kids! um then id say... idk what id say. um ill get back to you on that one...

He doesnt have much autism.
Like hardly any slightly at all.
he can control it but it shows up in his emotions and actions a bit.

my brother bashes me al da time it hurts so bad

my mums a single parent i dunno wot 2 do :(
im scared that 1 day i wont survive

me n ma bro always argue around..we even fight..u no..kung fu..haha..

but if he really makes me mad or slaps me..i'm gonna pull out all of his hair frm his head..!!..haha

p.s..i always win ma bro at ..
givin-your-bro-a-lesson..haha

Wow, your brother hits you, he's not a man or even a good brother and doesn't deserve to be your brother, happy?

Now get over it, think of people who get hit by their parents, that's worse, raised to be hit. Now your brother is autistic, which makes your situation even better, he has less control over his thoughts, and actions, as I am told....Just, don't fight with him..

OMG! I'm so sorry honey! You poor thing.

If he continues this behaviour, try keeping away from him at most times. I would also suggest that if that doesn't work, the next time he does it, call the police. This would keep you away from him, and possibly keep him locked away so he can't do it to anyone. I hope you'll be okay! I'll be here if you ever wanna talk. =) xoxo

Samantha --Keep that chin up!

Awww . Hun` , he`s a butt hole for doin` that . He deserves a big kick in the nuts and a few punches to the head . How old is yher bro`&&how old are yu ? If he continues to do that, `nd yher parents don`t listen, let somebody know && go to the cops, hun` . Keep yah` head up .
If yu ever need anything, I`m here if yu need someone . Though we don`t noe each other >-<
..ღ__MiNDYY

U really shouldnt let him do it..
I have the same problem i try to fight him back but im not so strong.. one time he even put robe around my next n like till everything went black n i fell down.. we get older n now its not anymore so bad.. but like hell before it. i really hope ur brother will stop beating u soon someone should seriously talk to him or smt. sad to hear.

your not alone..

october xx

Is it autism or auspergers? Cos Auspergers is like a 'higher functioning' form of autism. from what doctors and some of my friends with auspergers have told me.

So, yeah, fighting back is probably not the answer. Because even though you think he can control it, or know he can, and he probably can, DON'T FIGHT HIM. You'll get in a lot more trouble than it's worth. Don't take it either though. Yell at him. Tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him what you'd rather him do. Like, strangling, tell him, you'd rather have a hug. Otherwise he'll be likely to sulk and be moody and ignore you for a few days, weeks, months, years; because he'll think that's the appropriate response. But it only makes things worse.

i agree w/ black....try talkin to him bout it....tell him that it hurts u when he does that and heneeds to try and show his feelins in different ways.....i kno some autistic people hate loud noises...does ur bro? if so to help him remember if he starts to do soemthing which will hurt u yell...or hit somethin metal..something which will make a loud noise and bother him....that will make him stop a sec and then u can tell him that hes doin something harmful again....but im sorry u have to go through this all the same!!

You know what I would do, start taking some self defence or boxing classes and get confident enough to kick his ass!! More that likely in front of his friends so he's too embarrassed to ever try that crap on me again!

But hey thats just me :o)

^ Ha, that's what I'd do.

I think that chances are he is feeling inadequite or like he isn't strong enough so to make himself feel better he is trying to beat you up. I don't know, I'm not a councilor but I dunno why else he'd do that.

Yeah sock it to the lil prick I say sista!!!

Just give him a fantastic ass kicking, like brother like sister...