Do you believe in Fate?

It's a good question that. Do you believe that somewhere it is said or written exactly how your life, everyone's lives, will turn out? Or do you think that you have a choice? That there are many roads and each decision you make takes you down another? Or do you believe that nothing is certain? That everything is just coincidences, that there is no meaning?

Are you 1, 2 or 3?

I think I'm two. I make decisions and that’s how my life leads. Strange that. And is it possible to be happy without realising it? Because seriously I think that’s what’s happened to me. Very weird. Does anyone know truly what they want until they have it? Or do they not know until they’ve had it and lost it? You don’t appreciate anything until you have gone without.

Who do you turn to if you don’t have your closest friend?

What is right? What is the difference between the right choice and the wrong one? Which path do you take?

Is there somebody out there perfect for all of us? Or even several? Or is it up to us to find them and make them perfect? You don’t get something for nothing. And if you stop looking they’ll find you.

Just a few questions I have all the time.....

Well you can't "make someone perfect." They have to have it inside them to begin with. And you can either 1.) learn to live with their flaws, or 2.) not. It's all about knowing what you're willing to put up with, and what you can't without heavy rationalizing. But don't regret anything. Ever.

We make our decisions and then our decisions turn around and make us. I think that's what Fate is. But it also boils down to what each one of us are capable of, excel at, etc because it's different for everyone.

& I also agree, we don't always know ourselves or our capabilities, or those of others, until the act is upon us. So, follow your own dreams, no matter how unreachable they may seem, and forbear to judge.

The difference between right or wrong, I think, boils down to whether it will hurt someone else. The Bible also doesn't want you to hurt yourself either, because other people see it, and it hurts them, and you're being reckless and irresponsible...1.) Those other people need lives if they have to focus so much on yours, and 2.) well, actually, I'm out of excuses. There really aren't any for what you do to yourself or anyone else. But that's for you to figure out.

I dont belive in anything but horrible coincedinces (yes i know i probably spelled that wrong)

free will is an illusion.

If, hypotheticaly speaking, we could calculate the speed and direction of each individual atom, we could predict the future. Try to think of it as a pool table, if we hit the cue ball and calculate the speed/ direction it is going, we could work out where it will hit the balls and where those balls would go. Now if we look at that at an atomic level, we could work out where every atom in our body is destind to go and there for how we would act.

i beleive in fate.. that somewhere it's written how each day is going to be, what will happen, that from the day you are born your death is written down.. never to be changed..

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