First Dates Do’s and Don’ts

Please help me with any advice about first dates thanks…….

Please limit your posts to one a forum. You have pushed many posts down the list to the forbidden second page, which no one enters for fear of... who the hell knows.

first date's like--jsut like going out--jsut wearing clothes--and going out for a fresh air--or walk----

it's jsut like u going out wid ur frens--all u do in date's are talk-walk-eat--laugh--going out of words[sometimes]--

just like wat u do wen u go out wid ur frens---but date is like--well wid da guy u like--it's nervousing--anything can go wrong if u cannot handel ur weight--of ur boday movements--heeh

DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO:

wear a nice clothes--make sure it's not too baggy or tight--make sure it suts u--

make sure :
-u smell nice
-ur hair's perfect [to go out wid a guy]
-ur face looks O.K
-and u feel confortable
- clean ur teeth!!!!!!!!
-carry a tissue--or a hanky--i needed [not a must]

DONTTTTTTTTTTTTT
-don't wear too much makeup's
-don't wear too sexy clothes { unless ur guy likes like dat}
-don't be too like {who complains a lot}
-don't be too nervious--
-don't eat too much food in front of him
-don't chose the destinations [e.g: where to go] let him choose {choose unless he tells u 2}
-don't speak too much--unless he likes u co'z u talk to much--hehe
- eat something that doesn't makes ur breath stinks [co'z wat if he suddenly wants to kis u] so make sure u hav some bobble gum to clear ur breath!!--

smth like dat

Is this much ok?--hope it helped

No. TALK TALK TALK . Not like, BLABBiNG on and on and on, but just make shure yu talk to him . It`ll make him feel more comfortable and relaxed knowing that you`re opening up a bit, and he won`t be as nervous that he`ll screw it up =.=

'-don't speak too much'

^Are you joking? I talk almost non-stop, and my boyfriend tells me that's why he always felt so comfortable around me; he wasn't expected to think up a conversation topic because I was already talking.

I think for a first date you should just be yourself, act natural, and don't expect too much of it. It is only the first date right.

I agree with all of the above, except for:

-don't eat too much food in front of him
-don't chose the destinations [e.g: where to go] let him choose {choose unless he tells u 2}
-don't speak too much--unless he likes u co'z u talk to much--hehe

don't eat too much? haha, why should he care? if he honestly cares how much you eat, he's a controlling dickwad. unless you are 400 pounds, he should not be concerned. eat as much as you want to eat, unless you're so nervous that eating will make you nauseous (sp?). And it doesn't matter who chooses the location in the end, as long as you both agree...or one of you is surprising the other. AND talk as much as you want, don't try to be someone else. talk as much as you normally would.

anyway, just be yourself..because you don't want him to fall in love with someone you really are not. you want him to like you for you. it's ok to be nervous, everyone is on the first date...just try to relax and enjoy yourself. smile a lot, listen to what he says, and be genuine. good luck

okok fine--guy's don't complain--even tho i liked it--haha--well ya be yourself--and see if he likes who you are or not!!--

main thing--on ur first date---show him who u really are--and see if he accepts u or not--

well ppls how's dat one?--

and don't talk--well i changed ma mind for dat aslo ok?--

well don't eat to much is still in dat don't list-i'm not changing dat!!---

Why do you^ think you shouldn't eat too much?

I'm just curious what made you say that, because he really shouldn't care how much you eat.

maybe because she thinks if you eat too much you'll have to poop and that would be awkward. hahaha. but it takes more then a little while to digest. anyway..

Pfft. lol :P you make a good point, I suppose.

I assumed she was trying to say that by eating too much he'll think you are going to be overweight or something like that. But I dunno, that's why I asked. :)

Yeah ^^^^ that's what i assumed she meant as well. I'm just throwing the whole pooping thing out there because i'm a creep. anyway, i say eat however much you want

wen i said don't eat too much--means!!--

e.g-if u eat to much in frong of him-he may think u r a piggy!!--do u guys get me now?--i mean--like he's gonna think--u gonna waste his allmoney--ina sec
haha

proper punctuation please. I could not understand anything that you wrote.

Don't talk to much about yourself.
Don't ask to many questions.
Don't talk with your mouth full of food.

Do sound interested in what he says, but don't overdo it.
Do laugh of he's jokes, if you think they are funny.
Do eat up all your food, if eating is a part of the date.

Hummm...

Act natural. Dress comfortably, brush your teeth and hair, take a shower beforehand and make sure your hair looks nice, and try to relax. Maybe drink a bit of herbal tea to soothe your nerves beforehand... er, eat all you want, really.

//T.L.//

SECRET...a piggy? Because you are eating the amount you wish to eat? Maybe he'll think you're a piggy if you're incredibly overweight, but not if you're a decent weight AND you eat a lot. People, such as myself, excercise AND eat a lot...not to mention have a fast metabolism. And spend all his money? That is old fashion. Don't depend on your partner to support you, learn to support yourself and take turns paying for meals, etc. EQUALITY man!

i think you should just be yourself.... i mean if your the kind of person who likes to chooses where you go... then pitch in your idea and if he doesn't like it then ask him what you think and then comprimise if you ha ve to...

DON'T!!!
-Don't make out in front of your parents.. i did that.. not to great of a convo after he left
-Don't talk bout ur ex(s)
-Don't make fun of his friends
-Don't say that a guy that just walked by was hot(hehe)

If he asks you on a date, he should pay the first time, but make sure you have money with you just incase those weren't his plans;)

^ I disagree. In what sense should the guy have to pay? Split the bill yo!

I AGREE! splitting the bill on the first date is best. and dont be too nervous, just be yourself. thats probably why he asked you out! because you're... well... YOU.

i thnk on a first date, hu ever did the asking out shud pay. u want to make a gud impression.

just be yourself...if the other person doesn't like it well then to bad for them it's there loss...if they don't like you for you then there not worth it

lol the only thing i can tell u is be urself!!
if he is on thedate with u he must like u for who u are already ... and if he doesnt like that then thats his lost!!
i wish i could tell u not to be nervous.. but its natural! just remember to smile and remember to have fun. dont do anything u wouldnt normally do im talking bout kissing or being flirty if u dont feel comfortable with it. talk bout urself but take interest in him and just remember that no matter what happens... it was meant to be :) hope it helped!

lol the only thing i can tell u is be urself!!
if he is on thedate with u he must like u for who u are already ... and if he doesnt like that then thats his lost!!
i wish i could tell u not to be nervous.. but its natural! just remember to smile and remember to have fun. dont do anything u wouldnt normally do im talking bout kissing or being flirty if u dont feel comfortable with it. talk bout urself but take interest in him and just remember that no matter what happens... it was meant to be :) hope it helped!

well-mari?--wat do u think?--now come on--tell us how it went?

agree with essencially everything above, except for these points: limit your food intake and expect him to pay...

my advice: split the bill and eat as much as you want to pay for o.O

hahaha---funny somehow ^

get completely drunk, out of your mind.
then you wont remeber everything youve done wrong.

DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR EX.

unless he/she was your ex.

1) Be yourself, don't hold back.
2) You need to talk, no not constantly to be annoying, but enough to start up some conversations so you both feel more comfortable.
3) Act natural, as if you're with your friends because around friends you're always yourself, unless you're fake...
4) Have fun, don't let your nerves ruin it for you. Everyone is scared on a first date, but you can't let that get to you.
5) Don't be afraid to eat infront of him. No, maybe you shouldn't stuff your freaking face, but don't hold back if you're hungry.
6) I agree, you shouldn't bring up an ex on the first date, but if you do start a relationship, that subject is bound to come up and you need to be honest.

yeah!!--good one "punksunite24"--
m soo jeloues--u wrot better dan mine!!--
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aniwai--mari--how did it went?

dont be like
so you wanna go back to my place, so we can
DO IT yeah thats retarded lol

just be yourelf

Brandon, of course you would say that. No one is surprised.

I think conversation is what really makes or breaks it.
-Dont just sit there, akwardness isn't pleasant.
- Light teasing or good-humored banter is good. (lets 'em know you're witty)
- Don't ask uber-personal questions. If you do ask SOMEWHAT personal stuff, space it out, and don't dig for information.
-Smile and laugh. It puts everyone in a good mood.
-Let you're body-language speak. Sitting stiffly makes people uncomfortable and self-conscious. Be relaxed to an extended point.