Advice?

What do you do when you've lost your love, you find yourself lost in thought, she's all you think of?

all that is pleasing becomes bland,
hoping she is happy, but praying, not with a man.

wondering why you can't let go,
you can't release her she is a part of your soul.

time dwindles yet your love remains,
stained like imprisonment always failing freedom regardless the strains.

being confused on the endless debate,
is love worth the strife, fueled by the two most desperate emotions hope and hate?

attempts to answer shall forever fail,
be reluctant to ask for advice, for the ones that tell don't know and the ones that don't know tell.