CHOICE - it's between your choice or their choice.

by marclin   Aug 13, 2008


People come and go into our lives. You meet them anywhere at any given time in any situation. Differences are bridge by sharing common thoughts. As time goes by, it is either you will be going closer to them or finding yourself being far away slowly. It's a CHOICE - it's between your choice or their choice.

Every people you meet will give you different experiences. Yes, there maybe similarities but truly you can distinguish the differences between such memoirs of one to another. You can feel happiness being with them and be sad because of them. Whatever feelings you may encounter by meeting these different kinds of people in your life, you can't avoid it, and all you can do is to control things out - control your emotions and select a better way to deal with it. Still, sharing life's precious moments is a CHOICE - it's between your choice or their choice.

There will come a time that you're choice and their choice will be the same. Sharing the same feelings to spent life's moments together. Truly, you will feel gladness knowing that you are happy being with them. Then, you will say to yourself, "I hope we could know more of each other and experience more things together." and this very moment, you are sure of these decisions. But what if they chooses not too? Eventually, they will leave you behind. What matters now? Is it your choice or their choice?

The will of freedom, it is, indeed, a great gift, a great opportunity, a great chance to choose either to make other people happy and/or making their life miserably sad. If one person made his decision and firmly believed in what he's going to choose, then, all you can do is to prepare for the results; either good or bad; either it will give you sadness, pain, and suffering or not; for you to accept life ahead. This time, you can say to him whatever your choice is and wait for whatever choice they will take.

"Think twice" they say before you make your decision; before you select your choice. And I say this, even if you think more than twice and have thought of the possible outcomes of your selection, still you can't really tell what will happens next, specially when you have not discern other people's choices. So, we may say then that it is better to know other people's choice before picking up your own choices.

Again and again, I tell myself, you tell yourself, to be vigilant, to be observant, to be careful, to be mindful in whatever choice you're going to make. Yes, taking chances and/or taking risks maybe good but always be aware of other people's choices. So that in the end, it will be your own CHOICE that will REALLY MATTER and not theirs.

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  • 15 years ago

    by Yeka

    Truly keep up the great work (^_^) 5/5