In my experience, "building" anything takes time and effort, and when you are employing those two things, you are distracted from everything else which, in this case, may be a very good thing. Keep building and hang on in there.
Thanks! This poem is acutally from a few months ago, I sort of lost it and then found it again on my computer. I have gotten married since, and yes, build takes time, and also needs time, you know? You need the time build well.