In the breath between offense and reply,
Where silence trembles but does not die,
There lives a choice — so small, so still —
To bend to grace or break by will.
Hold still — when thunder calls your name,
When pride ignites and fuels the flame,
When words like daggers beg release,
But wisdom whispers: Choose your peace.
Hold still — not out of fear or flight,
But from a strength not born of might.
The power not to strike, but stand,
With justice folded in your hand.
Or — Engratia — move to please,
Smile wide while your soul’s on its knees.
Give them a show, a polished face,
While shrinking silent into disgrace.
Engratia, sweet in sound, yet sharp,
It trades your truth for gilded parts.
To win their nods, to chase their praise,
You lose yourself in subtle ways.
So ask your heart in moments grim:
Will you be ruled by them — or Him?
Will you react, or will you rise,
And hold still ‘neath unkind skies?
For strength is not in loud replies,
But in the storm you neutralize.
And grace is not in playing roles,
But in the stillness that guards souls.
????? "One frees you":
This refers to holding still — choosing inner stillness, silence, or grace in the face of provocation.
When you hold still, you are not reacting to please others or to defend your ego.
You stay true to your values, your faith, or your peace.
That frees you from regret, from manipulation, from becoming who others want you to be.
You remain in control of yourself — your emotions, your voice, your outcome.
???? Freedom here = inner mastery + integrity.
???? "The other performs you":
This refers to engratia — acting gracefully only to maintain an image, win favour, or avoid criticism.
It's when you're not truly at peace, but you act like it to fit expectations.
You smile, nod, respond “gracefully,” but inside, you’re boiling, breaking, or bending.
Instead of being free, you’re performing a version of yourself for others to accept or applaud.
Your actions are driven by how you'll be seen, not who you really are.
???? Performance here = self-betrayal for external approval.