what’s sad memorys you have ?

what’s the saddest 3 memories you have ?

1) when me and my ex broke up I cried for like a week straight love him so much.
2) when my grandmother passed away
3) my best friend slept with my boyfriend.

mine probably are:

1) the day my mum told me she had cancer and was gonna die!

2) the day she told me it was all a lie, and she never had cancer, EVER!

3) and then it's between, either:
the day i lost all my mates because they said i was really depressing, and i was boring (because of the two above)
OR
the day i was going through my dads text and i found out he is cheating on my mum!

anywayz bye
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

she said she didn't love my dad anymore and she wanted him to drive off beachy head (thats this really high cliff near my house, that loadz of people jump of just to die), and now when i tell her that she made me really sad for saying that all she says is "i only said i had cancer and i was gonna die, it wasn't that big of a deal"!!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

i don't trust her now, but my parents are probably spliting up soon so i'm gonna have to pick which one i wanna go with
:( but it's gonna be my dad's fault they split up so i don't wanna go with him :(
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

RaNdOmGaL thats so sad. why would your mom do that to you? see my grandmother died from cancer that was get me. so many people die from it and she lied to you like that, i am sorry that happend to you

my mum's mum died from it aswell about 15 years ago and my mum can't cope with it so shes on medication, but theres nothing wrong with my mum she's fine, i don't even think she needs the medication anymore!!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

i can never trust my mum again, and my dad promised me he would never cheat on my mum, and nows he's cheating on her so i'm not close to any of them anymore!! i'll probably go into social care!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

girl don’t do that i know people who have been in social care and it's not good, i wont say what happened to my friend because that her life. girl you seem to have it hard, but you have to be able to have a relationship with the person you live with who do you think that you can have that with

i agree

my dad doesn't know that i know yet, my mum doesn't know that he's cheating yet......
i have the number of the person the texts where from and i'm gonna phone it and find out whether he is actually cheating first (which i know he is!!)!!
if i had to pick, i don't know, but anyway my mum said that if they split up she would move back to where she was born (which is 2 hours away) and my would would up yourkshire (which is about 7 hours away), and i don't want to leave my friends because they have been there for me when my parents haven't, so thats why i would probably have to pick social care!!!! i know it's bad my mate is in social care and she said it fucked up her life, she is now back with her mum, but her mum is moving her to a bording skool away from her mates so i think she would have rather of stayed in social care!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

my parents already had this discussion with me, and they asked me if i was serious about picking social care, if one of them was going to live in eastbourne (thats where i live) and stay there, then i would live with them but if both of them moved away i wouldn't want to go with them, theres alot more than just this that has happened in my life, and my friends have been there for me through that, i ............ well i don't want to say anymore about my life really because there are some things that people have never known about me, not even my friends know........
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

ok then, i've got a better idea, i would live with one of my friends and there parents, loadz of my friends have already told me that i need to leave my parents because of just some of the things that happen, and loadz of them have said that i could go and live with them, but i don't know yet.
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

ok then perfect :)
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

that’s great just what ever you do don’t go into social care, what ever you do.

oh and Angelina Taylor® sorry if my grammar mistakes bugs you. i work on it, some times things come up when I am typing and I don’t have time to go back and check but i work on it when I being to write again

lol yeah me to, but i changed it for ya, sorry sometimes i just get to busy

my saddest memories are:

1)When i was in a car crash during the 1998 ice storm.....don't remeber much of it i was uncouncious
2)When my Grandma died of cancer, when my uncle died of heart attack
3)when i figured out that my grandma on my dads side hated my mum, me and my bro with passion.....I hate her too so iz all good!

hmmm i have more but too lazy to type right now....
~Luvz~
~Chica~

1) wen my mum and dad found out bad stuff had happened to me as a kid

2) when my husband cheated on me with an underage girl and nearly went to prison

3) i dnt have a third time but a lot of things make me sad, remembering bad stuff and also going into church and knowing im not in a good place makes me have to squeeze the tears back.

1) When my mom and dad split up twice, and fought so much, I cried myself to sleep at night

2) When my boyfriend broke up with me on st. patricks day

3) when I found out he left me for another girl, and that a day after we broke up he had a chance to kiss a girl that i knew, but he didnt.

* for the record, we're back together now, and worked everything out, but you had no idea how mad I was *

oh ... one more

4) when my grandma fell down a flight of stairs and had to go to the hospital for like 3-4 months ... she hasnt been the same since

* and me and her used to be sooo close .. :( *

woh well there are some pretty sad memories in there!!
mine i think would be:
1) dad having two cancers
2) sexually abused as a kid
3) friends not caring and just depression feeling shit.
god when i think about it there are so many bad memories...anyway
take care all of you.
x x x

there are so many more than three...
1) beaten at age 7 by a 12 year old neighbor boy who I recall sparse details of him sexually abusing me when I was 5
2) my dad yelling
3) my friend (who I had a crush on when I was 16) died recently

1. Seeing my Nan for the last time in hospital whilst she was dying from lung cancer

2. Having to say goodbye to my dog every morning before school in case he died

3. When my mum walked out after she and my dad argued, and not knowing where she was. My dad kept saying she could be lying in a ditch somewhere and she didn't come back til about 4am. A horrible four hours!

1.the day my brother flipped out and was hitting me my sister and my mom and ill put these to together since there both with my brother.....
the day my brother was flipping out and punching holes in our walls and chasing after my dad threatening to hit him and i had to call the police on him after ward we pressed charges on him

2.the day i went into the hospital

3. the couple of weeks b4 my dog died and then the night b4 i put my dog to sleep i had to say goodbye to her

"the day i went into the hospital" what happend to you ?
if you dont mind me asking

Ummm....
1. my best friend committing (sp) suicide
2. My best friend and I being raped, which caused her to commit suicide.
3. Breaking up with my last boyfriend.

wow people have some bad memories!!!! :(
the next question that should be asked is...........
did you get over those memories? or have they completely ruined your life?
oh and by the way to anyone that was reading about my saddest memories and i said afterwards that i gotta phone the number and see if my dad is cheating on my mum............... well i did and it was a women now i just don't know what to do!!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

1- finding out my dad had cancer, right after my grandma had it
2- when i started cutting (I HAVE STOPPED, no worries)
3- a boy in our school commited suicide, its so hard to see peoples reaction to something so tragic

1: when three of my grand parents died(my dad mother just b4 halloween 1993 and my moms mother just b4 easter 1994 and my moms dad on the day of my moms mothers funeral) within 5 months when i was 5

2: when we moved from my town to a place where i knew nobody 5 months later

3:when my dad walked out on me twice and forgot about both of them. or actually just my dad in general.

1. To see my mother throw my dad out of the House when she was drunk.
2. To see my father cry.
3. To Loose the best person in my life.

1.july 30
2.when my mom didnt acknowlage somthin
3.first day of seventh grade

It seems like such a long time ago now...

1) My phunking depression and times I locked myself in the closet

2) Time I attempted suicide when I was 8

3) Letting him go from my life..when he's probably ""the one" I'm searching for.

Notice all of these are in past tense. Thats because they are memories now. The depression still comes back sometimes. But I'll surivive. ^^

"Everything will be ok in the end
And if its not ok, its not the end"

why has this post been brought up again!?!?

1. When my parents told me they were moving me to the other side of the world where i knew no one.

2. When me and my best friend got chased and nearly abducted by a group of drunk guys at about 1am one morning

3. When i think of the guy i like, and how he will never see me that way, ever.

did you get over those memories? or have they completely ruined your life?

I don't like to think that my memories control my actions, but the fact that I was sexually abused combined with an emotionally distant father as a kid explains my promiscuity and desperate seeking of appreciation. my dad would also be to blame for making me not want to open up to guys cos they'd just be bored. "guys don't want to hear about your life." that's what my dad taught me. fucker. that felt good.

I will mention some sad memories, all of which took place in the short period of one month. Few days after the tsunami affected the Pacific region, a friend of mine committed suicide. The worst part is I never thought he would do it, because he always claimed he was prepared for it, but all he sought for was attention (or at least, such is the case with most people who threaten to commit suicide; generally, one who is decided to so it, will not tell anyone, lest that person will prevent it.) He was receiving help, et caetera. En fin, just two weeks later, my best friend lost his leg due to cancer. Contrary to the previous friend who simply hated life, this friend of mine has been really inspiring for his decisiveness, and his willingness to live. It is people like him who truly inspire us to become better people. Suicide is useless, for life is full of many things we need to experience. We will die naturally when our time has come, and not before.

1) dad kicking out both my sister and brother when i was 5
2) moveing half way across the country right after he kicked them out
3)all of my best friends turning aginst me, yesterday, they now hate me so yeah
thats about it that i am willing to talk about

1) being raped and toutured for three months when i was 12
2)being raped by a guy i had been friends with for about 5 years and getting pregnant, and then loosing the child due to him attackin me again (nearly killed me)
3) being abused by my family (in every way) since i can remember.
my happiest memory is when i moved away from everyone i knew and started a new life.

being raped, and sexually abused
my best friend sleeping with my first time, love of my life, we were perfect for each other
when my first love told me he got his other g/f pregnant a month after we broke up
anymore,

oh fighting with a friend about my b/f who dumped me and my friend got locked up RIGHT after i told him i hated him!

1.) Looking back on how things were before I lost EVERYTHING from Katrina.

2.) Finding out one of my REALLY CLOSE FRIENDS died because he stayed home for the storm.

3.) Knowing I will never see my friends and some family again and realizing things will NEVER be the same!

radom gal
hey to answer you question all of them haunt me, constantly, and they ruin my life, every minute, i breathe, i cant sleep at night, and i cant eat, im sick constantly