Boyfriend gone Bi what would you do?

What should i make of it is it because i am not good enough anymore,have i really put him off girls that much?

What would you do what would you say ?
I dont know what to think anymore:s

be comforting. period.

you didnt make him become anything he chose to be. its nothing you did or say im sure. before you became his gf he was probably confused with his sexuality. if your still with him be sure to be his support system, cause if worst comes to worst and you break up, he will know your there for him always. good luck!! =]

Thanks i will be with him no matter what happens even if he gets a boyfriend

your welcome =]

I only went away for a week and he went to a party with our mates and played truth dare then comes out that he thinks hes bi :s it just confussed me

wow

guys have a whole nother side of them that gurls will never understand. my theory neways lol.

yer i know :s o well all i can do is hope really i am in year 11 and we have been on an off since year 7

thats a long time. relatonships like that usually dont work out. off and on is not a good thing. thats shows lack of communication and love. maybe it is best for you and him to become only friends.

crunkz.. ur not much help at all...

this happened to me once. hes probly either just trying something new, not because you turned him off to girls, no, hes probly wanted to do this for a while. Or... thats just who he is. just cos he comes out as bi after you doesnt mean he wasnt bi before.

He's bi not gay soooo he's not all that turned off by girls - he just likes boys too.

I would initially self analyse and blame myself like you are, I think thats a natural female reaction. But its not the case. I think he could probably be struggling greatly right now with his own inner turmoil and support so perhaps since he was good enough to be honest with you and you really do care about him you could give him some support right now, he probably needs it.

I'm going to say, break up with him. I mean, stating the obvious.

If he decided he was Bi, obviously he wasn't thinking of you. Still be his friend though.

let him go bi bi guys are cool and bi means both guuys and girls attract them

Honestly, I'd break up with him, but remain his friend. Like Crunkz said "all will end in tears". I 100% agree with that.

i like gay guys, although i am not gay or bi bu i think its hot .....some times.............see if he will wear eyeliner, thats hot on guys!

ok, i didnt read these posts cuz sumthin u said, i HAD to tell you, its not anything u did that caused your bf to be bi. and anyways, hes still the same person, still the guy you fell in love with, now just with a lil quirk. i mean, im bi and none of my exs or my current bf blame themself for it and i was with sum1 when i came clean to my friends, but he realized and you to also that being bi is his choice and it is influenced by his feelings, not by anythin you did.

I agree. It's his choice to change, be it good or bad.

You need to have a heart to heart talk to him. He's the only one who is going to give you any answers that will count in the end.

The relationship could still work. But you need to be honest with yourself because of all the issues involved. If you're sexually active you need to consider the increased risk of STDs. Many Bisexuals are highly sexed is that going to suit your situation now or in thirty years time if your still together.

Ask for honesty and work through any issues you both have.

^^^whoa whoa whoa, thats kind of judgemental dont ya think?!im bi but im still a virgin, being bi doesnt make you loose...

Hold your whoa's lol

I not making a judgement on you personally. Being part of the gay community allows me some onsite in regards to bi/queer sexual practices

Gay and Bi Sexual males don't have the ties that generally are common in hetrosexual relationships.
In regards to the thread title it does open the author up to a greater chance of STDs as well.

its not u who did that if ur thinking that he just likes guys 2. i think that's totally cool wen guys admit it.

You havent turned him Bi though, so you shouldnt get too worried. he will have always been inclined that way he just may not have realised it or he may have not been able to admit it until now.
and also certain men in his life could have triggered him to think this aswell.

I just feel strange Knowing that any of out male friends he could like its no diffrent than him likeing a girl really. its so stupid really :(:s