You didn't

Being used is the worst. Adding you to my fav poets, your words are witty, sharp, and honest.

Oh, Phil. Sorry to hear this. But, you captured the whole thing in this piece. This hit me in the face, maybe because I'm guilty of this some time in my life. Love is never easy. :-(

There's little worse in the tricky game of love than knowing we have been completely used.
If this is literal, Phil, then I am sorry to hear of you're suffering.

All the best as ever,

Ben